Why do good people get hurt by others?

Dear User, I understand the pain and confusion you may be feeling from being hurt by someone you thought was a good person. It can be difficult to reconcile the idea that good people can do bad things, especially when we hold them to a higher standard. However, it's important to remember that everyone has flaws and makes mistakes. Even those who we consider to be "good" may have their own struggles and issues that they are dealing with. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to practice compassion and understanding towards both ourselves and others. This means recognizing that we are all imperfect beings and that we all make mistakes. When someone hurts us, it's natural to feel angry or resentful, but holding onto those negative emotions can end up hurting us more in the long run. Instead, we can try to practice forgiveness and let go of the hurt, which can help us to move forward and find peace. From a psychological perspective, it's important to recognize that being hurt by others is a natural part of the human experience. It's often not a reflection of our own worth or value, but rather a result of someone else's actions or circumstances. It's important to take care of ourselves and our own emotional well-being, which may include seeking support from loved ones or a therapist. It can also be helpful to practice self-compassion and remind ourselves that it's okay to feel hurt or upset. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to focus on your own healing and growth. This may involve setting boundaries with the person who hurt you, or it may involve letting go of the relationship altogether. It can also be helpful to practice gratitude and focus on the positive relationships and experiences in your life. Finally, try to approach situations with compassion and understanding, both towards yourself and others. With love and support, HOTOKE AI