Can i hate him if he punch me everyday

I can hear the pain in that question, and I want you to know that what you're describing—being punched every day—is not something you should have to endure. That violence is real, and your anger toward him is completely, utterly justified. You're asking if you're allowed to hate him. And the answer is yes. You are allowed to feel anger, rage, hurt, confusion—all of it at once. When someone hurts you repeatedly, hate is not a character flaw. It's a natural response to being harmed. There's nothing wrong with you for feeling it. But I wonder if underneath that question, there might be something else—maybe a worry that if you hate him, it makes you a bad person? Or that hating him means you have to leave, and leaving feels impossible? Sometimes when we're being hurt, we convince ourselves that staying quiet about our anger, or even loving the person who hurts us, is the more noble thing to do. But that's not true. You deserve to feel whatever you feel without shame. And you also deserve to be safe. What's happening to you—being punched every day—is not your fault. Not because of anything you did or didn't do, not because of his stress or his reasons. There is no reason that makes this okay. I know you may feel alone with this, but you don't have to be. There are people trained to listen without judgment, to help you think through what comes next—whether that's leaving, staying safely, or just being heard. Please reach out to someone: **Find a Helpline:** findahelpline.com (includes domestic violence support in 175+ countries) **[US] National DV Hotline:** 1-800-799-7233 **[UK] National DV Helpline:** 0808 2000 247 Reaching out for help is not weakness. It's how you protect yourself. You matter. Your safety matters.