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someone I had really meaningful communication with on several occasions have ghosted me

Relationships6/11/2023

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I'm sorry to hear that someone you had meaningful communication with has ghosted you. It can be very confusing and hurtful to suddenly lose contact with someone you thought you had a connection with. From a Buddhist perspective, we can understand that everything is impermanent and constantly changing. Relationships, whether romantic or platonic, are no exception. It is important to acknowledge that the person who ghosted you may have their own reasons for doing so, which may have nothing to do with you. It is also important to remember that we cannot control the actions of others, only our own reactions to them. From a psychological perspective, it is natural to feel hurt and rejected when someone we care about suddenly disappears from our lives. It is important to allow yourself to feel those emotions and process them in a healthy way, whether that means talking to a friend or therapist, journaling, or engaging in self-care activities. It can also be helpful to reflect on the nature of the relationship and whether there were any signs that it may not have been as meaningful as you initially thought. In terms of coaching advice, it may be helpful to practice mindfulness and focus on the present moment rather than dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. It can also be helpful to shift your focus to other relationships or activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Finally, if you feel comfortable, you may consider reaching out to the person who ghosted you and expressing how their actions made you feel. However, it is important to approach this conversation with compassion and an open mind, as there may be factors you are not aware of.