Why did my dad never apologise

Dear User, I understand that it can be very difficult when a loved one, especially a parent, never apologizes for their actions. It can leave you feeling hurt, frustrated, and even angry. I want you to know that it is okay to feel these emotions, and it is important to acknowledge and validate them. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to understand that everyone has their own karma, or actions, that they must work through. Your father may not apologize because he is not yet ready to face the consequences of his actions or may not even realize the impact they have had on you. It is essential to practice compassion and understanding for your father's journey and the challenges he may be facing. From a psychological perspective, it is possible that your father may struggle with vulnerability and admitting fault, which can stem from a fear of rejection or shame. It can be helpful to approach your father with empathy and compassion, expressing how his actions have impacted you and expressing a desire for understanding and resolution. My coaching advice to you would be to focus on your own healing and growth, rather than trying to change your father's behavior. Set healthy boundaries, express your needs and emotions in a calm and assertive manner, and seek support from a therapist or trusted friend. Remember that you cannot control your father's actions, but you can control how you respond to them and how you choose to move forward.