My friend calls me a lot. How can I keep a good distance from her?

Dear User, It sounds like you are experiencing some discomfort with the amount of contact your friend is making with you. It is understandable to feel this way, as boundaries are important for maintaining healthy relationships. It is important to acknowledge that it can be difficult to navigate situations like this, especially when it involves someone you care about. It’s okay to feel conflicted about how to handle this situation. From a Buddhist perspective, we can approach this situation with compassion and understanding. It may be helpful to reflect on the reasons behind your friend’s behavior. Perhaps they are going through a difficult time and are seeking comfort from you. It is important to approach this situation with kindness and empathy, while also maintaining your own boundaries. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to communicate your boundaries to your friend in a clear and respectful manner. You can express that while you value your friendship, you need some space to focus on other aspects of your life. It’s important to be assertive and communicate your needs, while also being open to listening to your friend’s perspective. As a coach, I would suggest having an honest conversation with your friend about your boundaries. This can be a difficult conversation to have, but it is important for both you and your friend’s wellbeing. You can also suggest alternative ways for your friend to seek support, such as therapy or other resources. Remember that it is okay to prioritize your own needs and well-being, and setting boundaries is an act of self-care.