Someone tells me he gets divorce because of me. Is it karma?

Dear friend, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to hear that someone has decided to get a divorce and is attributing it to you. Such an accusation can be a heavy burden to bear, and it's understandable that you might be feeling guilty, ashamed, or even angry. It's essential to remember that you are not responsible for other people's choices or actions, and you cannot control what they do. It's also essential to recognize that everything that happens in our lives is not always due to karma. From a Buddhist perspective, karma refers to the law of cause and effect. Every action we take has consequences, and those consequences can manifest in this life or future lives. However, it's important to understand that karma is a complex concept, and not all events in our lives are a result of our past actions. Sometimes things happen due to circumstances beyond our control, or due to the choices and actions of others. From a psychological perspective, it's essential to recognize that we cannot control the thoughts, feelings, and actions of others. We can only control our own responses and reactions. It's natural to feel upset and hurt when someone blames us for their problems, but it's important to recognize that their decision to get a divorce is not entirely your fault. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest taking some time to process your feelings and emotions around this situation. It might be helpful to talk to a therapist or a trusted friend who can provide support and guidance. It's also important to practice self-compassion and remind yourself that you are not responsible for other people's choices or actions. Finally, focus on taking care of yourself and engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.