I feel down because my friend blame me for not doing what he wants

Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling down because your friend is blaming you for not doing what they want. It can be very difficult to deal with criticism, especially when it comes from someone we care about. It is important to remember that you are not responsible for meeting all of your friend's expectations, and it is okay to set boundaries for yourself. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to cultivate compassion and understanding towards yourself and your friend. It can be helpful to practice mindfulness and observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Recognize that your friend's behavior is a reflection of their own internal struggles and not a reflection of your worth as a person. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to communicate with your friend and express how their behavior is making you feel. Use "I" statements to avoid placing blame and focus on how their actions are impacting you. It may also be helpful to set clear boundaries and expectations for your relationship moving forward. As a coach, I would suggest taking some time to reflect on your own needs and values. It is important to prioritize your own well-being and not compromise your own values for the sake of others. It may also be helpful to seek support from other friends or a therapist to process your feelings and develop a plan for moving forward. Remember, you are worthy of love and respect, and it is okay to prioritize your own needs.