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Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be when you argue with your parents and feel angry and resentful towards them. It is natural to have disagreements with our loved ones, but it can be especially challenging with parents who we may feel have a certain authority over us. It can be frustrating when we feel misunderstood or not heard, and it is important to take care of yourself during these times. From a Buddhist perspective, it is helpful to remember that anger and resentment can be harmful to ourselves and others. These emotions can cloud our judgment and cause us to act in ways that we may regret later. It is important to practice compassion and forgiveness towards ourselves and our parents. We can also practice mindfulness and focus on the present moment, rather than dwelling on past arguments or future worries. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to reflect on the root causes of the arguments with your parents. Are there certain triggers or patterns that lead to these disagreements? It may be helpful to communicate openly and assertively with your parents about how you feel and what you need from them. It can also be helpful to seek support from a trusted friend, therapist, or coach. As a coach, I would recommend taking some time to reflect on your values and priorities in your relationship with your parents. What do you want to achieve in your relationship with them? How can you communicate your needs and boundaries in a way that is respectful and constructive? It may also be helpful to practice self-care activities such as exercise, meditation, or spending time in nature to help manage your emotions and stress levels. Remember, it is okay to feel angry or frustrated with your parents, but it is important to take care of yourself and your relationships with loved ones.