Should I go visit my son?

I hear that you are considering whether or not to visit your son. It sounds like you are feeling uncertain about what to do and may be seeking some guidance. From a Buddhist perspective, we believe in the importance of cultivating relationships with our loved ones and being present for them. It is natural to want to spend time with our family members, especially our children. It can bring us joy and a sense of connection. However, we also understand that there may be circumstances that make visiting difficult or complicated. It is important to consider your own needs and limitations as well as those of your son. From a psychological perspective, it is important to consider the reasons why you may be hesitant to visit your son. Are there any underlying fears or anxieties that are holding you back? It may be helpful to explore these feelings and try to understand where they are coming from. Additionally, it may be helpful to consider the potential benefits of visiting your son. Will it bring you closer together and strengthen your relationship? Will it provide an opportunity for healing or growth? Ultimately, the decision to visit your son is a personal one that only you can make. If you do decide to go, it may be helpful to communicate openly with your son about your intentions and any concerns you may have. It may also be helpful to set boundaries and expectations beforehand to ensure that the visit goes smoothly. Remember to be kind to yourself and to approach the situation with an open heart and mind.