I don't know if my partner is talking to other girls. He's still on the dating app even though we are dating. He has multiple instagram accounts, and he's following two accounts of one girl and has been liking many of her posts. I don't know if I should ask...

Dear User, I understand that you're feeling uncertain and worried about your relationship. It can be challenging to navigate situations like these, especially when trust is a concern. It's understandable that you're feeling hesitant to ask your partner if he's talking to other girls, as this can be a difficult conversation to have. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to approach this situation with compassion and non-judgment. Try to understand your partner's actions without attaching labels or assumptions to them. It's also essential to remember that attachment and clinging can lead to suffering, so focus on cultivating a sense of detachment from the outcome of this situation. From a psychological perspective, it's important to communicate your concerns with your partner in a non-accusatory manner. Use "I" statements to express how you feel and avoid placing blame. It's also important to set boundaries for yourself and your relationship. If you're uncomfortable with your partner being on dating apps or following certain people on social media, communicate this to him and discuss how you can move forward together. My coaching advice for you is to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns. Approach the conversation with compassion and non-judgment, and use "I" statements to express how you feel. Set clear boundaries for yourself and your relationship, and discuss how you can move forward together in a way that feels comfortable for both of you. Remember to focus on cultivating a sense of detachment and non-attachment to the outcome of this situation.