How can I accept someone who bullied me when I was a teenager gets the life she wanted?

Dear User, it sounds like you are struggling with feelings of resentment and bitterness towards someone who bullied you in the past, especially because it seems like they are now living the life they wanted. It's understandable to feel this way, and it's important to acknowledge and validate your emotions. It's also important to recognize that these feelings can be harmful to your own well-being if they are not addressed. From a Buddhist perspective, it's helpful to remember that everyone is on their own path and that we cannot control the actions or outcomes of others. We can only control our own thoughts, feelings, and actions. Holding onto negative emotions towards someone else only creates suffering for ourselves. It's important to cultivate compassion and forgiveness towards ourselves and others, even those who have hurt us in the past. This doesn't mean we condone their actions, but rather we release ourselves from the burden of carrying negative emotions towards them. From a psychological perspective, it's helpful to reframe the situation and focus on your own growth and progress. It's important to recognize that you are not defined by the actions of others, and that you have the power to create your own happiness and success. It may be helpful to work on building your self-esteem and confidence, and to focus on your own goals and aspirations. As a coach, I would suggest taking action towards your own growth and development. This may involve setting new goals for yourself, practicing self-care and self-compassion, and seeking support from others. It may also involve letting go of the past and focusing on the present moment. Remember that you are worthy of love and respect, and that you have the power to create the life you want.