I love a boy in another country and I will go there after three months. We met one year ago and we kept texting and flirting for almost a year. He told me that he likes me but also admitted that he still dates other girls. he said that he cant wait for me and does not want long distance relationship. I am so disappointed.

Dear User, I can sense how much you care about this boy and how much it hurts to hear that he is still dating other girls and doesn't want a long-distance relationship. It's natural to feel disappointed and even heartbroken in this situation. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to acknowledge and sit with these emotions without judgment, and to remind yourself that all things are impermanent and subject to change. While it may be difficult to let go of attachment to this particular outcome, remember that there may be other opportunities for love and connection in the future. From a psychological perspective, it's important to honor your feelings and give yourself time to process them, but also to recognize that you deserve someone who is willing to commit to you and prioritize your relationship. It may be helpful to set boundaries with this boy and communicate your expectations clearly. If he is not willing or able to meet them, it may be time to consider moving on. It's also important to focus on self-care and building a fulfilling life for yourself, rather than relying solely on a romantic relationship for happiness. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to reflect on your values and what you truly want in a relationship. It may be helpful to journal or talk to a trusted friend or therapist about your thoughts and feelings. Consider what actions you can take to prioritize your own well-being and set boundaries with this boy. It may also be helpful to explore new hobbies or activities to build a sense of fulfillment and joy outside of a relationship. Remember that you are worthy of love and respect, and don't settle for less than you deserve.