my girlfriend complaining that I am poor

Dear friend, I can sense that you are feeling upset and hurt by your girlfriend's words. It is understandable that you would feel this way, as being criticized or belittled can be deeply painful. It is important to recognize that her words are a reflection of her own beliefs and values, and not a reflection of your worth as a person. It is possible that she may be struggling with her own insecurities or fears around money, and is projecting those onto you. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to cultivate compassion and understanding towards both yourself and your girlfriend. Practice self-compassion by reminding yourself that you are enough, regardless of your financial status. Try to extend compassion towards your girlfriend by recognizing that she may be struggling with her own issues, and that her criticism is not a personal attack. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to have a conversation with your girlfriend about how her words have made you feel. Use "I" statements to express your emotions and avoid blaming or attacking her. It may also be helpful to explore why money is such a sensitive topic for both of you, and to work together to find a solution that feels fair and equitable. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to focus on your own self-worth and not let your girlfriend's words define you. Take some time to reflect on your own values and priorities, and make sure that you are living in alignment with those. It may also be helpful to set boundaries around what you are willing to tolerate in terms of criticism and negativity. Ultimately, remember that you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, and don't settle for anything less.