Why Kaden is not showing up?
その他2023/3/30
HOTOKE AIがお答えしました
Dear User,
I can understand how frustrating and disappointing it can be when someone does not show up after making plans. It can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and angry, especially if you were looking forward to spending time together. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to remember that everything is impermanent and constantly changing. People's thoughts, feelings, and actions are influenced by the conditions and circumstances surrounding them, so it is not always within our control. It is also important to practice compassion and understanding towards others, even if we do not agree with their actions.
From a psychological perspective, it is natural to feel let down and to question the reliability of the person who did not show up. It is important to communicate your feelings and needs assertively and to set boundaries if necessary. It is also important to remind yourself that your self-worth is not dependent on the actions of others. Take some time to reflect on what you can learn from this experience and how you can move forward in a positive way.
In terms of coaching advice, I suggest reaching out to the person who did not show up and expressing how their actions made you feel. It is important to do this in a non-judgmental and assertive way, focusing on your own feelings and needs rather than blaming or shaming the other person. If they do not respond or continue to be unreliable, it may be necessary to reassess the relationship and whether it is healthy for you. Remember to practice self-compassion and take care of yourself during this process.
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