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my early retired father has been sitting at home watching tv claiming practicing zen for over 10 years. As a son, what should i do
Dear User, I can understand how challenging it must be for you to see your father spending so much time at home watching TV while claiming to be practicing Zen for over a decade. From a Buddhist persp...
Mar 6, 2024
夫と話し合いが持てません。
Dear User, I understand that you are facing difficulties in communicating with your husband. It can be incredibly frustrating and challenging when you feel like there is a barrier preventing open and ...
Mar 4, 2024
My family is moving our of our house this week. We cannot bring our 3 cats along.. we're going to have to leave them... my heart is painful.. How can ...
I am deeply sorry to hear about the difficult situation you are facing with having to leave your beloved cats behind as your family moves out of your house. It is clear that you are experiencing a gre...
Feb 29, 2024
My family is moving our of our house this week. We cannot bring our 3 cats along.. we're going to have to leave them... my heart is painful.. How can ...
I am deeply sorry to hear about the difficult situation you are facing with having to leave your beloved cats behind as your family moves out of your house. It's clear that your heart is filled with l...
Feb 29, 2024
My family is moving our of our house this week. We cannot bring our 3 cats along.. we're going to have to leave them... my heart is painful.. How can ...
I am truly sorry to hear about the difficult situation you are facing with having to leave your beloved cats behind as your family moves out of your house. It's clear that you deeply care for your fur...
Feb 29, 2024
家人的關係真的很重要嗎？
Dear friend, I hear the weight in your question about the importance of family relationships. From a Buddhist perspective, family relationships are indeed significant as they offer us opportunities to...
Feb 21, 2024
My little brother stole from me, and when I confronted him, he said he would return some stuff. Than I said, I want all of the stuff he took from me. ...
Dear friend, I am deeply sorry to hear about the pain and betrayal you are experiencing due to your little brother's actions. It is truly disheartening when trust is broken, especially within the bond...
Feb 19, 2024
我最近很累因为家庭的烦恼，男友妈妈忧郁症但男友也是有轻微忧郁症一直逃避问题，男友爸爸又在国外，我真的不懂该怎么办了
Dear User, I can sense that you are feeling exhausted and overwhelmed due to the troubles in your family. It can be challenging when someone close to you, like your boyfriend's mother, is suffering f...
Jan 26, 2024
我丈夫是一个很强势的人，他要求孩子必须听他的教导，不能违抗。但我的孩子其实有自己的想法，被逼得特别痛苦。我只能情绪上安慰我的孩子。我不知道如何解决这样的困境。
Dear User, I understand the difficulties you are facing with your husband's strong and demanding nature, particularly when it comes to your children. It can be challenging to witness your children fe...
Jan 25, 2024
My teenage son keeps lying to me. What should I do?
Dear Parent, I understand how challenging it can be when your teenage son repeatedly lies to you. It can feel frustrating, hurtful, and even make you question your relationship with him. It's importa...
Jan 19, 2024
I feel overwhelmed with my husband’s stress he get from work. I feel I’m not powerful enough to pull him out. While I’m being dragged down by him. I w...
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling overwhelmed by your husband's stress from work and that you are struggling to support him while also feeling the weight of his stress affecting you. It ca...
Jan 14, 2024
現在被趕走，沒有地方可以住
I understand that you are currently feeling overwhelmed and distressed because you have been forced to leave your home and have nowhere to stay. This situation can be extremely challenging and can tri...
Jan 12, 2024
我得罪負責管理宿舍的人員，現在要被趕走
I understand that you are currently facing a difficult situation where you have upset the person responsible for managing your dormitory, and as a result, you are now facing the possibility of being e...
Jan 12, 2024
有親戚病重, 家人很難過, 如何安慰
I understand that you are going through a difficult time as one of your relatives is seriously ill, and your family is feeling a great deal of sadness. It can be challenging to find the right words to...
Jan 8, 2024
小孩不吃飯怎麼辦，請運中文回答
Dear User, I understand that you are facing difficulties with your child not wanting to eat. It can be frustrating and worrisome as a parent when your child refuses to eat. From a Buddhist perspectiv...
Jan 7, 2024
小孩不吃飯怎麼辦
I understand that you are facing a challenge with your child not eating. It can be worrisome and frustrating when a child refuses to eat, as it may lead to concerns about their health and well-being. ...
Jan 7, 2024
父母过世快两年了， 很想再见见他们，很想去找他们，但我知道这是不可能的，我心好痛
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your parents. It is natural to feel a deep longing to see them again and to be with them. The pain of their absence can be overwhelming at times, and it is understa...
Jan 4, 2024
如何处理我和母亲的矛盾。
我理解你正在面对与母亲之间的矛盾，并且这可能是一段非常困扰和令人痛苦的时期。家庭关系中的冲突是常见的，但也可以是非常具有挑战性和影响深远的。无论矛盾的具体原因是什么，我想告诉你，你不是一个人，许多人都曾经或正在经历类似的困境。首先，我要鼓励你对自己的情感保持关注和接纳。这意味着允许自己感受到所有的情绪，无论是愤怒、伤心还是失望。请记住，情绪是正常的，而不是坏的。在这个过程中，尝试保持冷静和理智，避...
Dec 29, 2023
小舅子借了我的钱不还，我该怎么办
I understand how frustrating and disappointing it can be when someone you trust, like your brother-in-law, borrows money from you and doesn't return it. It can create a sense of betrayal and strain on...
Dec 26, 2023
I'm a child, why my parents limit me an hour a day playing computer
Dear child, I understand that you might feel frustrated and confused about why your parents limit your computer time to only an hour a day. It can be challenging when we have restrictions placed upon...
Dec 14, 2023