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I'm a child, why my parents limit me an hour a day playing computer
Dear Child, I can understand that you may feel frustrated or confused about why your parents limit your computer time to only one hour a day. It's natural to want to explore and engage in activities ...
Dec 14, 2023
I'm a child, why my parents limit me an hour a day playing computer
Dear child, I understand that you may feel frustrated or confused about why your parents limit your computer time to just one hour a day. It's natural to want to spend more time doing the things you ...
Dec 14, 2023
Earlier today I had gotten kind of angry. So my dad has always been absent and is a deadbeat dad. But he still lives with us. So earlier I looked at h...
Dear User, I want to start by acknowledging the pain and frustration you're experiencing in your relationship with your dad and the neglectful and abusive environment you've grown up in. It's complet...
Dec 6, 2023
親人死亡如何面對
I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. Losing someone close to us can be an incredibly painful and difficult experience. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to remember that deat...
Dec 1, 2023
我打了一大段話安慰和鼓勵我朋友，這是他的回覆：其實我很對不起 我一直不敢說 但是你對我很好 我又不知道要幹啥🥹。其實就因為我自己有在煩惱我媽媽手術的事，然後不懂自己在幹啥 越來越迷茫 對不起～🥹 怎麼說 好吧真的就是我自己問題 不關你事 我自己問題很大 不知道在幹啥而已 可能之後沒事就會好起來～
Dear friend, I want you to know that I understand and empathize with the feelings you expressed in your response. It can be difficult to find the words to express our own struggles, especially when ...
Nov 23, 2023
我破产了，我真的不想活了
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It sounds like you're going through a really tough time right now, and it's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and discouraged when facing fi...
Nov 18, 2023
My mother does not respect me. This has put a strain on our relationship as I have just been putting up with her lack of respect for me without confro...
Dear User, I understand how difficult and frustrating it can be when your mother does not show you the respect you deserve. It can be emotionally draining to constantly endure such a strained relatio...
Nov 15, 2023
I live in pain because I just realised that my father raped me when i was younger
I'm truly sorry to hear about the pain you're experiencing due to the realization of such a traumatic event from your past. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge and confront such experiences, and ...
Nov 14, 2023
我想让孩子早上上床睡觉，养成规律的作息，却总是做不到
Dear User, I understand that you are facing difficulties in getting your child to go to bed early and establish a regular sleep schedule. It can be frustrating when our efforts to establish healthy h...
Nov 13, 2023
我女儿很容易生气，我可以做什么呢
Dear User, I understand your concern about your daughter's anger issues. It can be challenging and distressing to witness our loved ones experiencing such strong emotions. From a Buddhist perspective...
Nov 13, 2023
my daughter is always easily tempered, what can i do
Dear User, I understand that having a daughter who is easily tempered can be challenging and concerning for you as a parent. It can be difficult to witness your child experiencing strong emotions and...
Nov 13, 2023
I hate the medical staff that did not save my dad.
I'm truly sorry to hear about the loss of your dad and the pain you're experiencing. It's natural to feel a range of emotions, including anger and frustration, towards the medical staff who were unabl...
Nov 1, 2023
有的婆婆眼中看媳婦是長期免費的女傭。生產工具。生病時免費的看護工。怎會將媳婦當成自己人看待呢？所受到的態度就是比自己的女兒不一樣。
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling frustrated and unappreciated in your relationship with your mother-in-law. It seems that she sees you as someone who is solely responsible for household c...
Oct 31, 2023
How can I tell my family I want to live abroad?
Dear User, I understand that expressing your desire to live abroad to your family can be a sensitive and challenging situation. It is natural to feel a mix of excitement and apprehension about sharin...
Oct 30, 2023
How can I tell my family I want to leave abroad?
Dear User, I understand that expressing your desire to leave abroad to your family can be a challenging and delicate situation. It is natural to have concerns about their reactions and the potential ...
Oct 30, 2023
某天，媽媽一直問關於手機的問題， 我口氣不耐煩...她看劇看得勤時， 問得也就勤了，難免讓我心情煩躁。 有一次沒忍住，我跟她說話的口氣很不耐煩， 那次之後，媽媽好長時間都沒找我給她弄手機。 有一天，媽媽看我吃完飯，就試探性地跟我說： 「女兒，不忙吧？ 能不能幫我搜一下...
Oct 24, 2023
某天，媽媽一直問關於手機的問題， 我口氣不耐煩...她看劇看得勤時， 問得也就勤了，難免讓我心情煩躁。 有一次沒忍住，我跟她說話的口氣很不耐煩， 那次之後，媽媽好長時間都沒找我給她弄手機。 有一天，媽媽看我吃完飯，就試探性地跟我說： 「女兒，不忙吧？ 能不能幫我搜一下...
Oct 24, 2023
某天，媽媽一直問關於手機的問題， 我口氣不耐煩...她看劇看得勤時， 問得也就勤了，難免讓我心情煩躁。 有一次沒忍住，我跟她說話的口氣很不耐煩， 那次之後，媽媽好長時間都沒找我給她弄手機。 有一天，媽媽看我吃完飯，就試探性地跟我說： 「女兒，不忙吧？ 能不能幫我搜一下...
Oct 24, 2023
佛說：世間之事，都是有因有果的。 我們種了什麼樣的因，就會得到什麼樣的果，經常做好事的人，就會得到善果，那些常做壞事的人，就會得到不好的下場。 我們觀察一個人，就可以知道他，做的好事多，還是壞事多，因果是不會騙人的，一個人，諸事不順，必定是過去的因導致，一個人，好運不斷，也同樣是過去的因...
Oct 24, 2023
How can I deal with a mother like control others and with anxiety problem
Dear User, I understand that dealing with a mother who tries to control others can be challenging and that it can become even more difficult when combined with anxiety problems. It's important to ack...
Oct 16, 2023