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How can I get my husband to stop complaining about his old employer?
Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to listen to your husband's constant complaints about his old employer. It can be emotionally exhausting to hear someone continuously talk about nega...
Apr 12, 2023
how can I make my husband be supportive to me and children?
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out for support. It can be challenging when we feel unsupported by our loved ones, especially in regards to the care and nurturing of our children. Know that your fe...
Apr 12, 2023
Why do I always get jealous?
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with jealousy. It can be a challenging emotion to handle, and I want you to know that you are not alone in feeling this way. Jealousy can stem fr...
Apr 12, 2023
Cuckold fantasy disturbs me from time to time
Dear User, thank you for coming to me with your concerns about your cuckold fantasy. It takes a lot of courage to share something so personal and potentially embarrassing, and I want you to know that ...
Apr 12, 2023
A colleague is very handsome. How can I make him my friend
Dear friend, I understand that you are interested in making a new friend who happens to be a very handsome colleague of yours. It is perfectly normal to be drawn to someone because of their physical a...
Apr 11, 2023
how can I say no to my boyfriend during sexual activity
Dear User, it takes courage to acknowledge that setting boundaries in a relationship can be challenging, especially when it comes to sexual activity. It's important to recognize that you have the righ...
Apr 11, 2023
Can I be honest to my wife if I had one night stand?
Dear User, I can sense that you are in a difficult and challenging situation. The fact that you are contemplating whether or not to tell your wife about the one night stand is a sign of your integrit...
Apr 11, 2023
Can I be honest to my partner if I have an affair?
I understand that you are facing a difficult and complicated situation. It takes courage to confront the reality of an affair, and it can be challenging to know what to do next. From a Buddhist perspe...
Apr 11, 2023
i breakup with my friends
I'm sorry to hear that you've gone through a breakup with your friends. It can be a difficult and painful experience to lose people who once held a significant place in your life. It's important to ac...
Apr 11, 2023
Husband has affair
I am deeply sorry to hear that you are going through such a difficult time. Discovering that your spouse has had an affair can be an incredibly painful and traumatic experience. It is natural to feel ...
Apr 11, 2023
Husband has affair
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that your husband had an affair. This is a very difficult time for you, and I understand that you may be feeling a range of emotions, such as anger, betrayal, sadness, a...
Apr 11, 2023
I broke my partner’s heart
I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. It takes a lot of courage to admit that you have caused someone pain, and it shows that you have a compassionate heart. It is natural to...
Apr 11, 2023
Why the girl dont like me?
Dear User, I can understand that it can be difficult and hurtful when someone you have feelings for doesn't seem to reciprocate them. It's natural to feel a sense of rejection or questioning what it ...
Apr 11, 2023
I have a lovely boyfriend but there's a rich guy courting me.
Dear friend, thank you for reaching out for advice. It takes courage to open up about such personal matters, and I am here to offer support and guidance. It sounds like you are in a challenging situat...
Apr 11, 2023
i have another woman and my ex wife is leaving me with my daughter
Hello, I understand that you are going through a challenging time. It can be incredibly difficult to navigate complex relationships like the one you are experiencing. It's understandable to feel hurt ...
Apr 11, 2023
I am gay. I have been longing for a partner but throughout the years I’ve had no luck. I feel unloved and uncared for. What can I do?
Dear friend, thank you for sharing your vulnerability with me. It takes courage to open up about such personal struggles. As a Buddhist, I want you to know that you are not alone in your suffering. Ev...
Apr 11, 2023
hi I want to break up with my girlfriend
Dear friend, I understand that you are going through a difficult time and must be feeling a lot of emotional pain. Breaking up with someone you care about is never an easy decision to make, and it tak...
Apr 11, 2023
Why to I always feel sad when thinking I have no partner yet and everyone seems to have it.
Dear User, it's completely understandable to feel sad when you see others in relationships and you're not in one. It's natural to want to feel loved and connected with someone else, and it can be diff...
Apr 10, 2023
People say that we should escape being single, even if being alone or with someone is the same outcome that being with someone is better than being al...
Dear User, I can understand how you feel about the pressure to escape being single. It can be challenging when people constantly remind you that being in a relationship is better than being alone. Ho...
Apr 10, 2023
is it possible to love someone who is incompatible? can we work it out
Dear User, thank you for reaching out for advice. I can sense that you're feeling conflicted and uncertain about your current relationship. It's not uncommon to feel this way, especially when you're i...
Apr 10, 2023