Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
I am always giving comfort to my friends, but when I am emotionally down, no one can offer me the support in a way that I offer to them
Dear friend, I can sense that you are feeling quite alone and unsupported at the moment, despite being there for your friends in their times of need. It is understandable that you might feel disappoi...
May 25, 2023
I am becoming more and more willing to stay on my own. But in the meantime I suffer if I have no friends to hang out. What can I do?
Dear friend, I understand that you are feeling torn between your desire for solitude and your need for social connection. It can be challenging to find a balance between the two, and it's okay to feel...
May 25, 2023
I’m not good at socialising
Dear User, I understand that socializing can be challenging, and it is natural to feel uncomfortable or anxious in social situations. It is important to remember that everyone experiences these feelin...
May 24, 2023
How to end a pair of toxic couple
Dear User, I understand that being in a toxic relationship can be a painful and difficult experience. It takes a lot of courage to recognize that a relationship is toxic and even more strength to tak...
May 24, 2023
I want to go to heaven but my friends are racist
Dear friend, I can understand how difficult and confusing it must be for you to have friends who hold racist beliefs. Racism is a harmful and hurtful attitude that is not in line with Buddhist teachi...
May 24, 2023
do i have to get long well with other people
Dear User, I understand that getting along with other people can be difficult at times. It is a common human experience to struggle with relationships, as everyone is unique and has their own perspec...
May 23, 2023
How to show compassion to someone you hate and hurted you ?
Dear User, I can understand that it can be extremely challenging to show compassion to someone who has hurt you, especially if you have strong negative emotions towards them. It is completely valid to...
May 22, 2023
How should i deal with being lied by my best friend?
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. Discovering that someone you trust has lied to you can be a painful experience, especially when that person is someone clos...
May 21, 2023
How should i deal with being abandoned by my best friend suddenly?
I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time due to the sudden abandonment of your best friend. It is understandable to feel hurt, confused, and betrayed when someone you trusted and...
May 21, 2023
I am not good at socializing
Dear friend, I understand that socializing can be difficult for some people. It can be overwhelming to be in social situations, especially if you are naturally introverted or shy. It's okay to feel th...
May 21, 2023
I am not good at socializing
Dear friend, I understand that it can be challenging to socialize and connect with others, especially if it does not come naturally to you. It is common to feel anxious or uncomfortable in social situ...
May 21, 2023
I am not good at socializing
Dear friend, I understand that socializing can be challenging for many people. It can be difficult to make connections with others, especially if you feel shy or anxious in social situations. It's imp...
May 21, 2023
I am not good at socializing
Dear friend, I understand that socializing can be challenging for some people, and it can be difficult to feel like you don't fit in or belong. It is okay to feel this way, and it doesn't mean there i...
May 21, 2023
I'm so afraid and awkward to approach and talk to strangers
Dear friend, I can understand that approaching and talking to strangers can be a daunting task. It's completely normal to feel uneasy or anxious in such situations. As human beings, we have an inheren...
May 21, 2023
I have no friends what can I do to make some
Dear friend, I understand how difficult it can be to feel like you have no friends. It can be a lonely and isolating experience, but please know that you are not alone. Many people struggle with makin...
May 21, 2023
If attachment causes suffering should I leave my wife
Dear friend, I can understand how difficult this question is for you. It takes a lot of courage to even consider such a decision. It's important to remember that attachment is a natural human emotion ...
May 20, 2023
I’m not good at socialzing.
Dear User, I understand how difficult socializing can be, especially if you feel like you're not good at it. It can be overwhelming to try and navigate social situations, especially when you feel like...
May 20, 2023
Why am I afraid of people not liking me?
Dear Friend, Thank you for reaching out with such an honest and vulnerable question. Many of us have experienced the fear of not being accepted by others, and it can be a painful and difficult feelin...
May 20, 2023
Is divorce the end ofy ability to love another person again?
Dear friend, I can understand how you might be feeling at this moment. Going through a divorce can be a very painful and traumatic experience. It can make you feel like all your hopes and dreams about...
May 19, 2023
My friend just sent me a weird website. Should I unfriend him?
Dear friend, I understand that receiving a strange website from a friend can be a confusing and unsettling experience. It is natural to feel uneasy and unsure about what to do next. It is essential to...
May 19, 2023