Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
The people are unfriendly
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing unfriendliness from the people around you. It can be difficult to deal with such negativity, especially when it feels like it's directed towards...
Jun 3, 2023
Very afraid of being slandered
Dear friend, I understand that you are feeling very afraid of being slandered. It can be a very distressing and unsettling experience to have one's reputation attacked or maliciously spread false rumo...
Jun 3, 2023
A person in my social circle dislikes me but I need to interact with them daily
I understand how challenging it can be to interact with someone on a daily basis who dislikes you. It can be emotionally draining and create a lot of stress and anxiety in your life. From a Buddhist p...
Jun 2, 2023
I have dark secrets should I reveal to my partner? Should I admit it?
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concerns with me. It takes a lot of courage to admit that you have dark secrets that you are considering sharing with your partner. I want you t...
Jun 2, 2023
how to have a good relationship with family members
Dear User, Thank you for seeking guidance on how to have a good relationship with your family members. It is understandable that you value your family and desire to maintain a positive and healthy re...
Jun 2, 2023
why I act nice but people do not think so?
Dear friend, I can sense the frustration and confusion you may be feeling when you act kindly towards others, but they do not perceive it. It can be disheartening to put in the effort to be compassion...
Jun 2, 2023
How to accept a betrayal as friend again
Dear User, I can imagine that being betrayed by a friend can be a painful and difficult experience. It can be hard to trust someone again after they have hurt you, and it's normal to feel a range of e...
Jun 1, 2023
I feel guilty about not helping when I feel like I could have done something. I was too shocked at that time
Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It's completely understandable to feel guilty when we think we could have done something to help, but didn't. It can leave us feeling powerless, frustrated and d...
May 31, 2023
I am very angry at the rude and disrespectful cashiers I wish I told them exactly what I was thinking now I regret it a lot
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling angry about the behavior of the cashiers. It can be frustrating when you feel like you are not being treated with respect, especially when you are g...
May 30, 2023
I find that when my friends have issues, I response to them. But when I have issues, I texted them, they ignore it.
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing this problem with your friends. It is understandable to feel disappointed and hurt when you are not receiving the same level of support that y...
May 30, 2023
My daughter is angry and bitter, for some very understandable reasons. How can I best help her?
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to see your daughter in so much pain. As a parent, it's natural to want to fix everything and make it better. However, sometimes the best ...
May 29, 2023
i am frustrated when people don't cherish my helpfulness
Dear friend, I understand how frustrating it can be when you offer your help to someone, but they don't seem to appreciate or value it. It can make you feel unimportant or unappreciated, and that can ...
May 29, 2023
Why does my body language shut down when I’m around people.
Dear User, thank you for reaching out and sharing your concerns with me. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge and express how you feel. I want you to know that you are not alone in this. Many peop...
May 27, 2023
I would like to meet more people, make new friends, I am a female aged 32, what activities should I join
Dear friend, it is understandable that you wish to meet new people and make new friends. It takes courage to step outside of your comfort zone and seek out new social experiences. It is natural to des...
May 27, 2023
I have been close to someone and now suddenly they decreased interaction with me.
Dear friend, it can be difficult to experience a sudden decrease in interaction with someone you have been close to. It is understandable that you may be feeling confused, hurt, or anxious about what ...
May 27, 2023
What to do when a close one says that they'll get in touch but don't?
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It can be frustrating and disheartening when someone close to us says they will get in touch, but then doesn't follow through. It's understand...
May 27, 2023
I am not good at handling relationship
Dear User, I understand that you may be feeling discouraged and frustrated with your ability to handle relationships. It can be challenging to navigate this aspect of life, especially when it involves...
May 27, 2023
I am not good at socializing
Dear friend, I understand how challenging it can be to struggle with socializing. It's common to feel anxious or unsure of ourselves when we are in situations where we have to interact with others. It...
May 27, 2023
I m pregnant but broke up with boyfriend. What to do?
Dear friend, it sounds like you are going through a difficult time. Being pregnant can be challenging, and going through a breakup can make things even more overwhelming. It's understandable that you ...
May 27, 2023
How to handle boyfriend family issue
Dear User, I understand that dealing with family issues can be quite overwhelming, especially when it involves your boyfriend's family. It can feel like you are caught in the middle of a difficult si...
May 26, 2023