Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
How do I improve my relationship with my wife?
Dear User, I am so sorry to hear that you are struggling with your relationship with your wife. It can be difficult and painful when we feel like we are not connecting with the person we love. From a ...
May 18, 2023
My boyfriend’s mom is seriously sick, he is back home to be with her now and we live in different countries. What can I say to him?
Dear User, I am sorry to hear about your boyfriend's mother's illness. It is never easy to see our loved ones suffer, and I can only imagine how difficult this must be for both you and your boyfriend...
May 18, 2023
I am not good at socializing
Dear User, I understand that socializing can be challenging for many people. It can be uncomfortable to put ourselves out there and interact with others, especially if we are introverted or have had ...
May 17, 2023
My ego dominates relationship with my 13 year old daughter. How can I unassume responsibility for her personality?
Dear User, I can sense the distress you are feeling in regards to your relationship with your 13-year-old daughter. It is natural for parents to want to guide and shape their children's personalities,...
May 17, 2023
Why I feel so sad when I know my wife had 4 times abortion before meeting me
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad about your wife's past experiences with abortions. It is understandable that this knowledge may bring up difficult emotions for you, and it is i...
May 17, 2023
I'm not good with socializing
Dear User, I hear you when you say that you're not good with socializing. It can be tough to put yourself out there and feel vulnerable in social situations. I understand that it might be frustrating ...
May 17, 2023
how to deal with people who has no shame?
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to deal with people who seem to have no sense of shame. It can be frustrating and even painful when we witness someone acting in a way that goes against...
May 17, 2023
I'm not good at socializing.
Dear friend, I hear you. It can be difficult to feel like you're not good at socializing. The pressure to fit in and connect with others can be overwhelming, and it's easy to feel like you're not meas...
May 16, 2023
I am not good in relationship
Dear User, thank you for reaching out for support. It takes courage to acknowledge areas where we feel we could improve. It's important to remember that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and we a...
May 16, 2023
I hate my friends
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with feelings of hate towards your friends. It can be a challenging experience to feel this way, especially when it comes to people you care about...
May 16, 2023
What should i do if i cannot trust anyone, not even myself?
Dear User, thank you for reaching out for advice. I understand that it can be difficult to trust others, especially if you have experienced betrayal or disappointment in the past. It is also understan...
May 16, 2023
"My wife is an alcoholic and often abuses me, but for various reasons, we cannot separate at the moment. I also have a lot of work pressure, and in fa...
Dear User, I am sorry to hear about the challenges you are facing with your wife's alcoholism and abusive behavior towards you. It is understandable that this must be a difficult and overwhelming sit...
May 16, 2023
my wife is trying to get me back but i have no mood to enjoy my marriage. what should i do?
Dear User, I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your marriage. It can be challenging to navigate the complexities of a relationship, especially when one partner is not feeling a...
May 16, 2023
Me and my fiancé is world apart
Dear User, I can only imagine the challenges that you must be facing being away from your fiancé. It can be incredibly difficult to maintain a relationship when you are physically separated, especiall...
May 16, 2023
I always feel jealous, How can I solve this?
Dear friend, it takes courage to acknowledge that you are struggling with jealousy. Please know that you are not alone in this experience. Jealousy can be a challenging emotion to deal with, and it's ...
May 16, 2023
Why I am jealous
Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It takes courage to acknowledge and explore our emotions, especially when they may not be pleasant. It's important to remember that jealousy is a natural human e...
May 15, 2023
Can i hate him if he punch me everyday
Dear User, it sounds like you are going through a difficult situation where you are being physically hurt by someone else. It's understandable to feel angry, frustrated, and even hate towards the pers...
May 15, 2023
Can i hate him if he punch me everyday
Dear User, I can understand how difficult and painful it must be for you to endure physical violence on a daily basis. It is understandable that you may feel a range of emotions, including anger, frus...
May 15, 2023
I’m scared that people talk about me behind my back
Dear User, I understand how you feel. It can be unsettling to think that people might be talking about you behind your back. It's natural to want to be liked and accepted by others, and the thought of...
May 15, 2023
I have no friends, what shall I do
Dear User, I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with not having any friends. It's understandable that this can be a difficult and lonely experience. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to ...
May 15, 2023