Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
How can I be honest to my parents
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out for advice on how to be honest with your parents. I understand that this can be a difficult and sensitive topic, and it takes courage to seek guidance in this ma...
May 11, 2023
Why I can’t forgive him
Dear User, I can sense that you're struggling with a very difficult situation. It can be challenging to forgive someone who has hurt us deeply, especially if they haven't taken responsibility for the...
May 11, 2023
Why he abandoned me?
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult time. Feeling abandoned can be a painful experience, and it is understandable that you may be feeling hurt, confused, and even a...
May 11, 2023
My colleague is annoying
Dear friend, I can understand how difficult it can be when we have to deal with an annoying colleague in the workplace. It can be frustrating and stressful to work with someone who gets on your nerves...
May 11, 2023
how should I treat the people I really hate?
I understand that you are struggling with difficult emotions towards certain people in your life. It's never easy to deal with feelings of hate and resentment, and it's important to acknowledge the pa...
May 11, 2023
My landload makes me so angry. How should I respond?
Dear User, I understand how frustrating it can be to feel anger towards your landlord. It's important to acknowledge and validate these feelings, as they are completely valid and understandable. Perh...
May 11, 2023
Why do I have bad luck with mentors
Dear User, I understand that it can be disappointing and frustrating to have bad luck with mentors. It may feel like you are putting in the effort to find someone who can guide and support you, but th...
May 10, 2023
My partner cannot stop overthinking
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it can be to watch someone you care about struggle with overthinking. It can feel overwhelming and never-ending, leaving you feeling helpless and frustrated. ...
May 10, 2023
How can I forgive someone?
Dear User, Forgiving someone can be a challenging and painful process, but it is possible with time and effort. It's understandable that you may be struggling with this, as forgiveness requires you t...
May 10, 2023
I am anxious in social situations
Dear User, I hear you and understand how you feel. It's not uncommon to feel anxious in social situations, and it can be a tough experience to navigate. Feeling this way can be overwhelming, and it's...
May 10, 2023
I was rude to my coworker and now i feel bad, what should I do?
Dear User, I understand how you are feeling right now. It can be difficult to come to terms with our own mistakes and the impact they have on others. You are taking the first step by acknowledging you...
May 10, 2023
How can i not hate someone that hurt me
Dear User, I'm sorry to hear that someone has hurt you. It's understandable that you may be feeling a lot of negative emotions towards that person right now, such as anger, resentment, or even hatred...
May 10, 2023
My hubby scolded me when I did someone wrong
Dear User, I understand that you might be feeling upset and guilty right now after receiving scolding from your husband for doing someone wrong. It's natural to feel that way because we all make mista...
May 10, 2023
My girlfriend only care the food i buy, not me
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to feel like your partner only cares about material possessions and not about you as a person. It's natural to want to feel loved and valued for who we...
May 10, 2023
I am not good at socializing
Dear friend, I understand that socializing can be challenging for many people, and it takes courage to acknowledge this. It's natural to feel uncomfortable or nervous in social situations, especially ...
May 10, 2023
I don't know how to maintain a committed relationship
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your struggles with maintaining a committed relationship. It can be challenging to navigate the ups and downs of a partnership, and it takes courage ...
May 10, 2023
I have no friends
Dear friend, I hear you and I understand that feeling like you have no friends can be a painful and lonely experience. It's natural to want to feel connected and have a sense of belonging, and sometim...
May 10, 2023
What should someone do if her mum hates her much
Dear friend, first of all, I want to acknowledge how difficult and painful this situation must be for you. It is never easy to feel unloved or to experience hostility from a parent. You are not alone ...
May 10, 2023
I have problem trusting people because many always disappoint. What should I do?
Dear friend, I hear you. It can be challenging to trust others, especially when you have experienced disappointment and hurt in the past. It is natural to feel guarded and to protect yourself from bei...
May 10, 2023
i am too direct on expressing my opinion
Dear User, Thank you for sharing your concern about being too direct when expressing your opinion. It takes courage to acknowledge this aspect of yourself and to want to improve it. From a Buddhist p...
May 10, 2023