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IM NOT GOOD AT SOCIALIZING
Dear friend, I understand that socializing may not come easily to you. It can be challenging to feel comfortable in social situations, especially if you are naturally introverted or shy. It is importa...
May 10, 2023
I’m not good at socializing
Dear User, Thank you for sharing your concern about not feeling confident in social situations. It's perfectly understandable to feel this way, especially if you're an introverted person or have had ...
May 10, 2023
How to stay calm when confronting annoying people?
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question on how to stay calm when confronting annoying people. It can be a challenging situation to deal with when we are faced with people who trigger ...
May 10, 2023
My colleagues are stupid
I understand that you are feeling frustrated with your colleagues and it can be challenging to work with people who you feel are not meeting your expectations. From a Buddhist perspective, it is impor...
May 10, 2023
How can I remind calm when confronting someone who is not likeable?
Dear friend, I understand how challenging it can be to remain calm when dealing with someone you find unlikable. It can be frustrating and stressful, especially if you have to interact with them on a ...
May 10, 2023
How to escape from my 97-year-old father?
Dear User, it sounds like you are feeling overwhelmed and trapped by your current situation with your father. It's understandable to feel this way, especially if you are the primary caregiver for a 97...
May 10, 2023
I'm not good at socializing.
Dear User, thank you for sharing your concern. It takes courage to acknowledge one's limitations and seek help. Please know that you are not alone in feeling this way. Many people struggle with social...
May 9, 2023
How can I let go of someone?
Hello! Thank you for reaching out and seeking guidance on this matter. It can be incredibly difficult to let go of someone, especially if they have played a significant role in your life. It takes a l...
May 9, 2023
how to deal with stubborn people?
Dear User, I understand your frustration when dealing with stubborn people. It can be challenging to communicate with someone who is unwilling to consider alternative viewpoints. You may feel like yo...
May 9, 2023
I always want to know how the people who hurt me before what is going on now, and wish them live worse now, I know what I am doing is wrong, but I jus...
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it can be to let go of past hurt and pain caused by others. It is natural to want to understand why someone hurt us and to feel anger or resentment towards th...
May 9, 2023
I hate one of my colleague
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling a strong sense of dislike towards one of your colleagues. It can be challenging to work with someone when there is tension and negative feelings between yo...
May 9, 2023
I always talk too much during walking , I think I am useless
Dear user, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concern with me. It is understandable to feel frustrated and useless when you believe you talk too much during walking. It is important to remin...
May 9, 2023
How to stop gossiping
Dear User, I understand that you are seeking guidance on how to stop gossiping. It takes courage to acknowledge this behavior and a willingness to change. Gossiping can be harmful to both the person w...
May 8, 2023
I am not good at socialising
Dear friend, I hear you. Socializing can be challenging, especially when we feel like we're not good at it. It's natural to feel this way, and it's essential to acknowledge these feelings, but it's eq...
May 7, 2023
Why is someone always pop up on my mind, for l don't even think of him. But in the past he was always being very unopened towards me. What can l do?
Dear User, I understand how challenging it can be when someone who has been unkind to us in the past keeps popping up in our minds. This can be frustrating and even distressing, especially if we feel...
May 6, 2023
What to do with introvert people please?
Dear User, I understand that you may be struggling to connect with introverted people. It can be challenging to understand their needs and wants when they are not as forthcoming as other individuals. ...
May 6, 2023
I ask others for advice too much.
Dear User, I hear you expressing concern about asking others for advice too much. It can be challenging to find a balance between seeking guidance and relying too heavily on others for answers. From a...
May 6, 2023
How can I let go of someone who walked away
Dear User, I understand that it can be incredibly difficult to let go of someone who has walked away from your life. It's natural to feel a sense of loss, sadness, and even anger when someone who was ...
May 6, 2023
I don’t like my colleagues
Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to work with people you don't like. It's essential to recognize that we all have different personalities, backgrounds, and ways of working, and somet...
May 6, 2023
I’m not good at socialising
Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you're struggling with socializing, and that can be tough. It's natural to feel anxious or uncomfortable in social situations, especially if you'r...
May 6, 2023