Relationships
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Should i forgive my abusive parents
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It sounds like you are struggling with the decision of whether or not to forgive your abusive parents. It's understandable that this is a diff...
Apr 2, 2023
When I talk to others, sometimes I focus too much on things that we disagree on and forget to focus on what we agree on
Dear User, I understand how frustrating it can be to feel like your conversations with others always end up emphasizing your differences rather than your similarities. It can be easy to get caught up...
Apr 2, 2023
What if I do something embarrassing in front of my crush?
Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It is completely understandable to feel embarrassed when we do something in front of our crush that we perceive as awkward or embarrassing. It's normal to want t...
Apr 2, 2023
My sister pissed me off when she used my things at home
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that your sister has upset you by using your things at home without your permission. I can understand how frustrating and upsetting it can be to feel like your personal ...
Apr 2, 2023
i forgot to do a thing that i promised my friend. She seems to be upset now, I feel really guilty. what can i do
Dear friend, I can sense the distress and disappointment you are feeling right now. It's understandable to feel guilty when you forget to fulfill a promise to a friend. Your friend's reaction is a sig...
Apr 2, 2023
How to persuade my husband to take my 3 years old daughter's emotions better? He is always upset with her.
Dear User, thank you for reaching out for advice. It must be challenging for you to see your husband struggling with your 3-year-old daughter's emotions. It's understandable that you want to help him ...
Apr 2, 2023
What should I do when my wife gets angry?
First of all, I want to acknowledge that dealing with anger, especially from someone you love, can be challenging and overwhelming. It's natural to feel hurt, frustrated, or defensive when your wife g...
Apr 2, 2023
how to deal with jealousy
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out to me for advice on how to deal with jealousy. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge this emotion and seek help, and I want to commend you for taking this ste...
Apr 2, 2023
I need a friend
Dear friend, I understand how difficult it can be to feel like you need a friend. It's natural to want to have someone in your life to share your experiences with, to laugh with, and to support you ...
Apr 2, 2023
How can you forgive someone who has done something really wrong to you
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that someone has done something really wrong to you, and I can only imagine the pain and hurt that you are experiencing. It is completely normal to feel angry, betrayed,...
Apr 1, 2023
Why did my dad never apologise
Dear User, I understand that it can be very difficult when a loved one, especially a parent, never apologizes for their actions. It can leave you feeling hurt, frustrated, and even angry. I want you t...
Apr 1, 2023
Can I have success with reconciling my marriage after 6 months of being separated?
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to have been separated from your spouse for the past 6 months. It takes a lot of courage to even consider reconciliation after a separatio...
Apr 1, 2023
How can I help someone that’s sick
Dear User, I understand that you are seeking advice on how to help someone who is sick. It's admirable that you want to extend support and care to someone who is not feeling well. It's natural to fee...
Apr 1, 2023
I have a PhD but am afraid to tell my colleagues because I am afraid they might be jealous
Dear friend, I understand how you feel about sharing your academic achievements with your colleagues. It can be daunting to share success with others, especially when there's a risk of being judged or...
Apr 1, 2023
It’s difficult for me to tell my colleagues I have a phd
Dear friend, thank you for reaching out and sharing your struggles with me. It takes courage to express vulnerability, and I am here to support you. I can understand that it can be challenging for you...
Apr 1, 2023
My friends dont reply to my memes. What should i do?
Dear User, I understand how frustrating and disheartening it can be when your friends don't reply to your messages, especially when it comes to sharing something that you find amusing or entertaining....
Apr 1, 2023
I have a friend who diminishes me a lot, but I'm also lonely. Should I still keep her as a friend?
Dear friend, I understand that you are in a difficult situation. It can be hard to deal with a friend who diminishes you. It can make you feel hurt and unappreciated, which can ultimately lead to feel...
Apr 1, 2023
My friend just knocked on my rolex watch and it has scratches now. Should i be angry
Dear friend, I understand how upsetting it can be when something that we cherish gets damaged. It's normal to feel angry or frustrated in situations like this, especially if it was caused by someone w...
Apr 1, 2023
my mom does not understand my need for my own entertainment time. if I am not busy with work, she will ask me to chat with her. we live together and w...
Dear User, I understand how challenging it can be when our loved ones don't understand our needs for personal time and space. It's natural to want to be there for our family and spend time with them,...
Apr 1, 2023
what to do when disappointed at a friend
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling disappointed in your friend. Disappointment is a natural emotion that arises when our expectations are not met. It can be painful and frustrating, ...
Apr 1, 2023