Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
How to disclose the infidelity
Dear User, I can understand that you are in a difficult and painful situation, and it takes a lot of courage to seek advice on how to disclose infidelity. It's natural to feel anxious, scared, and ov...
Apr 11, 2023
what to do if people scold me
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that people are scolding you. It can be very hurtful and discouraging when others are unkind to us. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to remember that everyon...
Apr 11, 2023
How can i get back my separated wife ?
Dear User, I can sense that you are going through a difficult time right now. Separation from a loved one can be very painful, and it is understandable that you want to do everything you can to get yo...
Apr 11, 2023
can I not tell my partner about my affair if I already feel guilty?
Dear User, I can imagine that you are going through a difficult time right now. Feeling guilty can be a heavy burden to carry, especially when it comes to infidelity in a relationship. It is understan...
Apr 11, 2023
my partner initiated unprotected sex but i refused. he apologized but I cannot trust, what should i do
Dear User, I can understand how you must be feeling right now. It's natural to feel violated and hurt when someone you trust initiates unprotected sex without your consent. It's important to acknowle...
Apr 10, 2023
Friends are leaving
Dear User, I understand that it can be difficult when friends start to leave. It's understandable to feel sad and lonely when you're going through this experience. It can be especially challenging wh...
Apr 10, 2023
i am afraid to trust my partner due to domestic violence at childhood, what should i do
I understand that you are struggling with fear and mistrust in your current relationship due to the trauma you experienced in childhood. It is completely understandable for past experiences to impact ...
Apr 10, 2023
how to tell if someone is expressing his true feeling or emotionally controlling me
Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to decipher whether someone is expressing their true feelings or emotionally manipulating you. It is natural to want to trust and believe in the peo...
Apr 10, 2023
my white classmates who are less capable, less experienced but lie about their achievements managed to get internships. but as an asian here in France...
Dear User, Thank you for sharing your experience with me. It sounds like you're feeling frustrated and discouraged about not being able to secure an internship despite your hard work and qualificatio...
Apr 10, 2023
I want to have sex with my girlfriend but she is not willing
Dear User, I understand that you may be feeling frustrated or perhaps even rejected by your girlfriend's unwillingness to engage in sexual activity with you. It's important to acknowledge that everyon...
Apr 10, 2023
My friend calls me a monk. I feel insulted.
Dear friend, I can understand how you feel insulted when your friend calls you a monk. It is natural to feel that way, especially if you do not identify yourself as a monk or do not resonate with the ...
Apr 10, 2023
how to be less attached to social relationships
Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to feel less attached to social relationships. Relationships are a fundamental part of our lives, and it is natural to feel attached to them. However...
Apr 10, 2023
how not to get attached to social relationships
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with this question. It's understandable that you may be seeking to detach from social relationships, perhaps because you've had negative experiences or you're fee...
Apr 10, 2023
how not to get attached to social/ intimate relationships
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out for advice on how to not get attached to social and intimate relationships. It sounds like you may have experienced some pain or discomfort in these types of rel...
Apr 10, 2023
is it okay to keep a secret from my wife to avoid her being hurt
Dear User, I understand that you are in a difficult situation where you are considering keeping a secret from your wife to prevent her from getting hurt. It is natural to want to protect our loved one...
Apr 10, 2023
Why I am always reminding people to do something
Dear User, thank you for sharing your concern. It is understandable that you may feel frustrated or concerned about constantly reminding people to do things. From a Buddhist perspective, it is importa...
Apr 10, 2023
Can i hate him if he punch me everyday
Dear User, I understand that you are going through a difficult situation where someone is physically hurting you on a regular basis. This can be both physically and emotionally exhausting, and you ma...
Apr 10, 2023
What should I do if I’ve been invited to participate in a group I do not want to join?
Dear User, I understand that being invited to participate in a group that you do not want to join can be a difficult situation. It is normal to feel apprehensive, anxious, or even stressed about it. I...
Apr 10, 2023
I am bullied by my colleague. I feel upset
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are being bullied by your colleague. It can be incredibly hurtful and frustrating to experience this kind of mistreatment, and it is completely normal to feel ...
Apr 10, 2023
Why is my friend so annoying
Dear User, I understand how frustrating it can be to have a friend who is annoying. It can be especially challenging when you don't know why they're acting that way. From a Buddhist perspective, we b...
Apr 10, 2023