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I want accompany and friends but always feel tired continuing the friendship at the same time

Dear friend, I understand that you are feeling torn between wanting companionship and feeling exhausted by the effort it takes to maintain friendships. It can be challenging to balance our desire for ...

Mar 14, 2023

My friend very sad because he very fat and cannot play badminton

Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that your friend is feeling sad because of his weight and inability to play badminton. It can be challenging when we feel limited by our physical abilities or appearanc...

Mar 14, 2023

How to stop hating a person I hate very much

Dear friend, thank you for reaching out with this question. It takes courage to admit that we are struggling with negative emotions towards someone, and it is important to acknowledge that these feeli...

Mar 14, 2023

I am in an unhealthy relationship

Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are in an unhealthy relationship. It takes a lot of courage to recognize and acknowledge that you are in an unhealthy relationship. It can be challenging to le...

Mar 14, 2023

My husband always ignore my feelings

I understand how difficult it can be when someone we love ignores our feelings. It can make us feel unheard, unimportant, and even unloved. It's natural to want to be heard and understood by those clo...

Mar 14, 2023

my wife has a very bad temper, how to deal with it? I even think about divorce.

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to deal with your wife's bad temper. It can be very challenging to live with someone who has frequent outbursts of anger. You may feel like...

Mar 13, 2023

my wife has very bad temper, how to deal with it?

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be to deal with your wife's bad temper. It can be challenging to navigate a relationship with someone who has a short fuse, and it can leave you feeli...

Mar 13, 2023

preschool kids says things that are disrespectful

Dear User, it sounds like you are going through a tough time with your preschool-aged children saying disrespectful things. As a parent, it can be incredibly difficult to hear our children speak in a ...

Mar 13, 2023

How to find a friend

Dear friend, thank you for reaching out for guidance on finding a friend. It can be challenging to feel lonely and disconnected from others, especially during these times where physical distancing has...

Mar 13, 2023

I hate people!what should I gonna do?!

Dear User, I understand that feeling a strong dislike towards people can be a challenging experience. It is important to recognize that this feeling is not uncommon and can be caused by various factor...

Mar 13, 2023

I hate my classmates

Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to deal with classmates who may not treat you well or make you feel uncomfortable. It is natural to feel frustrated and upset when we encounter such...

Mar 13, 2023

I don't know how to comfort my friend on his sadness

Dear friend, I understand that you are feeling lost and unsure of how to comfort your friend who is experiencing sadness. It can be difficult to know what to say or do when someone we care about is go...

Mar 13, 2023

Should I go visit my son?

I hear that you are considering whether or not to visit your son. It sounds like you are feeling uncertain about what to do and may be seeking some guidance. From a Buddhist perspective, we believe in...

Mar 13, 2023

How to love my sister in law

Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you are struggling with how to love your sister-in-law. It's natural to have difficulties in relationships, especially with family members. It's i...

Mar 13, 2023

I have two friends that do not come along. They both ask me out for lunch. How to deal with this?

Dear friend, thank you for reaching out to me with your concern. It can be challenging when two friends who do not get along both ask to spend time with you. It is understandable that you may feel con...

Mar 13, 2023

my husband is feeling frustrated because he feels he has not achieved much and failed my expectations, how can I help him

Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to see your partner feeling frustrated and unfulfilled. It's natural to want to help them in any way possible. It's important to remember that everyo...

Mar 13, 2023

i am alone in my team physically, but not mentally

Dear friend, thank you for reaching out and sharing your thoughts and feelings. I can sense that you are feeling alone physically, but not mentally. It can be tough to feel like you are the only one o...

Mar 13, 2023

i am alone in my team

Dear friend, I can understand how you may be feeling alone in your team. It can be challenging to feel disconnected from those around us, especially when we spend so much time with them. From a Buddhi...

Mar 13, 2023

I feel so alone and nobody is free to listen me, who can talk to me

Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling alone and that you don't have anyone to talk to. It can be incredibly difficult to feel like we are carrying the weight of the world on our shoulde...

Mar 13, 2023

How to not yell at kids

Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to manage your emotions and not yell at your kids. It's natural to feel frustrated or overwhelmed when children don't listen or behave as expected. H...

Mar 13, 2023