why cant my kinds listen to what i say

Dear User, I understand how frustrating it can be when it feels like your children aren't listening to you. It can make you feel helpless, like you're not being heard or understood. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to remember that everyone has their own internal world, their own thoughts and emotions, and their own way of viewing the world. It's possible that your children are simply not in the same mental space as you when you're trying to communicate with them. From a psychological perspective, it's important to look at the way you're communicating with your children. Are you speaking to them in a way that they can understand and relate to? Are you actively listening to them when they speak? It's possible that there are underlying issues that are causing a breakdown in communication, such as a lack of trust or a history of miscommunication. It's important to address these underlying issues in order to improve your communication with your children. In terms of coaching advice, it may be helpful to take a step back and assess the way you're communicating with your children. Are you using language that is age-appropriate and easy to understand? Are you actively listening to what they have to say and acknowledging their feelings? It may also be helpful to set aside specific times to talk with your children, where you can give them your full attention and they can feel heard and understood. Finally, it's important to lead by example and model good communication skills for your children.