I don't like my parents. They are selfish. Am I wrong?

Hello, I hear that you are struggling with your relationship with your parents and feeling like they are selfish. It can be challenging to navigate difficult relationships, especially with those closest to us. It's important to recognize that your feelings are valid and understandable. It's okay to feel the way you do, and you are not alone in feeling this way. From a Buddhist perspective, we understand that all beings are subject to suffering, and our parents are no exception. They may have their own struggles and challenges that lead them to act in ways that are hurtful or selfish. However, it is also important to recognize that we have the power to change our own reactions and responses to their behavior. We can cultivate compassion and understanding towards them, even if we don't agree with their actions. From a psychological perspective, it's important to explore why you feel the way you do about your parents. Are there specific incidents or behaviors that have led to these feelings? It may be helpful to talk to a therapist or counselor to process these emotions and develop coping strategies. As a coach, I would suggest setting boundaries with your parents if their behavior is causing you harm. It's important to take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. You can also practice mindfulness and self-compassion to help manage your emotions and cultivate a sense of inner peace. In summary, it's okay to feel the way you do about your parents, but it's important to recognize that we can change our reactions and responses to their behavior. It may be helpful to explore these feelings with a therapist or counselor and set boundaries to prioritize your own well-being.