My second son is autism, I apply harker school for him this year, but got rejected. I’m very sad and worried for his future

Dear User, I can understand how heart-wrenching and stressful it must be for you to have your son with autism rejected from Harker School. It must have taken a lot of effort, time, and emotional investment to prepare and apply for the school. I am sorry that you have to experience this disappointment and uncertainty about your child's future. From a Buddhist perspective, it is essential to accept the present situation and let go of the attachment to the desired outcome. It's easier said than done, but remember that life is unpredictable, and we cannot control everything that happens. Instead, we can focus on cultivating inner peace, compassion, and patience, which will help us navigate through challenging times. Take refuge in the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, and trust in the law of karma, that every action has a consequence. Believe that your son's destiny is not entirely in your hands, but a result of his past actions and present conditions. From a psychological perspective, it is natural to feel sad and worried about your son's future. It is a sign that you care deeply about him, and you want the best for him. However, it is crucial to manage these emotions and not let them overwhelm you. Practice self-care, such as meditation, exercise, or talking with a friend. Seek support from autism advocacy groups or a therapist who can guide you through this process. Reflect on your son's strengths, interests, and talents, and explore other schools or programs that may be a better fit for him. Remember that your son is more than his diagnosis, and he has unique qualities that can contribute positively to the world. As a coach, I would advise you to take a deep breath, acknowledge your feelings, and focus on what you can control. Celebrate your efforts and persistence in advocating for your son's education. Use this experience as a learning opportunity to refine your approach and strategies for future applications. Research other schools that may have different admission criteria or more specialized programs for children with autism. Develop a support system of family, friends, or professionals who can provide guidance and encouragement. Above all, trust that your son's journey is unfolding as it should, and you are doing your best to support him.