My wife got pregnant for 2nd kid. But my current house is too small for living with two kids and one dog. My parents didn’t support me to buy a bigger apartment. And my wife is not responsive every time I raise the housing concern. She is just focus on the little things. What should I do?

Dear User, I understand that you are going through a difficult situation. It can be overwhelming to think about accommodating a growing family in a small space, especially when you have a pet. It is natural to feel anxious and stressed about this situation. It is also understandable that you would want support from your parents and your spouse, but it seems that you are not getting the support you need. From a Buddhist perspective, it can be helpful to remember that everything is impermanent, and this situation is no exception. This situation will not last forever, and you will find a solution that works for you and your family. It may take some time and effort, but trust that it will work out eventually. From a psychological perspective, it can be helpful to practice gratitude for what you do have, even if it is not ideal. Focusing on the positive aspects of your current situation can help alleviate some of the stress and anxiety. In terms of coaching advice, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your wife about your concerns. Try to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, acknowledging the things she may be focusing on. It may also be helpful to explore different housing options and come up with a plan together. You can also consider seeking outside help, such as speaking with a financial advisor or a therapist, to work through any issues that may be preventing you from moving forward. Remember to be patient and kind to yourself and your loved ones during this process.