How come my father don’t speak to me?

Dear User, I can imagine that it must be very painful for you to experience the silence of your father. It's natural to feel hurt, confused, and frustrated when a parent doesn't speak to us. It's important to acknowledge these feelings and give yourself permission to feel them. It's also important to recognize that your father's behavior is not necessarily a reflection of your worth as a person. He may be struggling with his own issues or going through a difficult time himself. From a Buddhist perspective, it is helpful to practice compassion towards your father. This doesn't mean you have to condone his behavior, but rather, it means acknowledging that he too is a human being with his own struggles and challenges. It's also important to practice self-compassion and not blame yourself for your father's behavior. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to communicate with your father and express how his silence is impacting you. It's important to do this in a non-judgmental and respectful way. Perhaps there is something specific that has caused the rift in your relationship that can be addressed. However, it's also important to recognize that you can't control your father's behavior and that sometimes, despite our best efforts, relationships may not be repairable. My coaching advice for you would be to focus on your own well-being and healing. This may involve practicing self-care, seeking support from loved ones or a therapist, and working on developing a sense of inner peace and acceptance. Remember that you are not alone and that there are people who care about you and want to support you.