I thought I was important to her

Dear User, I can sense that you are feeling hurt and disappointed because you thought you were important to someone, but now you feel like that might not be the case. It can be difficult to feel like we are not valued or appreciated by someone we care about, and it's understandable that you might be feeling a range of emotions right now. It's important to remember that your feelings are valid, and it's okay to feel the way you do. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to remember that all things are impermanent and constantly changing. This includes our relationships with others. While it's natural to want to hold on to the people we care about and feel like they will always be there for us, the reality is that sometimes people's feelings and circumstances change. It's important to practice non-attachment and acceptance of this impermanence, even though it can be difficult. From a psychological perspective, it's important to acknowledge and process your feelings. It can be helpful to talk to someone you trust about how you're feeling, whether that's a friend, family member, or therapist. It's also important to practice self-care and engage in activities that make you feel good and bring you joy. In terms of coaching advice, it might be helpful to reflect on what you need in a relationship and what your boundaries are. It's important to communicate your needs and boundaries clearly to the people in your life, and to surround yourself with people who respect and value you. It's also important to remember that you are worthy of love and respect, regardless of anyone else's actions or feelings. Take care of yourself, and know that you are not alone.