Family
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
老公有心理疾病怎么办
Dear User, I can understand how difficult and overwhelming it must feel to have a spouse with a mental illness. It is natural to feel worried and uncertain about how to best support your partner. It ...
Apr 14, 2023
Should I divorce with my husband?
Dear User, I want you to know that I hear your struggle and understand that this is a difficult decision that is weighing heavily on your heart. It takes a lot of courage to ask for advice on such a p...
Apr 14, 2023
My wife is not getting her pr and facing repatriation
Dear User, I can understand how difficult and stressful this situation must be for you and your wife. Facing the possibility of repatriation can cause a lot of anxiety, uncertainty, and fear for both...
Apr 14, 2023
父母亲年纪大了，身体不好了，我们子女该怎么办
Dear User, I can sense the deep concern and worry you have for your aging parents. It is a challenging situation to see our loved ones struggling with their health and well-being. It is natural to fe...
Apr 13, 2023
我不愛我的太太了，但係我地有兩個小朋友，可以點做好？
Dear User, I can sense that you are going through a difficult time right now. Feeling like you don't love your spouse can be a very painful experience, especially when you have children together. It'...
Apr 13, 2023
怎樣擺脫自以為是的說想做，在生命的每個階段，都是一個懂得尊重孩子的好媽媽？
I understand that you're struggling with feeling like you're being too self-righteous and wanting to be a good mother who respects her children at every stage of life. It's normal to have these concer...
Apr 12, 2023
My husband lost his job. How can I get him not to focus on bad things?
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to see a loved one going through a tough time, especially when it involves losing a job. It's natural for your husband to feel upset, anxious, and negat...
Apr 12, 2023
My husband lost his job. How can I get him not to focus on bad things?
Dear User, I am sorry to hear about your husband's job loss. This can be a very stressful and difficult time for both of you. It is natural for your husband to feel a range of emotions, including sadn...
Apr 12, 2023
my mother and I always have conflicts and different opinions. how can I deal with it?
Dear User, I understand that having conflicts and different opinions with your mother can be a difficult and challenging situation. It is natural to want to have a positive and harmonious relationship...
Apr 12, 2023
找不到老婆怎么办？
Hello there! From both a Buddhist and psychological perspective, I can understand how difficult it can be to feel like you are unable to find a partner. Loneliness can be a challenging emotion to deal...
Apr 12, 2023
I lost my dad 2 years ago, and I miss him recently. what should I do
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you lost your dad two years ago and that you have been missing him lately. Grief is a natural and complex process, and it is okay to experience waves of sadness an...
Apr 12, 2023
孩子在国外工作，我要怎样学会放下不去担心？
I understand that it can be difficult to let go of worry when your child is working abroad. It's natural to want to protect and care for your child, even when they are grown and independent. From a Bu...
Apr 11, 2023
媽媽用他的身份決定我一定要聽他說話去做 我覺得無理
Dear User, I can understand how you might be feeling frustrated and powerless in this situation. It can be difficult when a parent uses their position of authority to make decisions for us without ta...
Apr 11, 2023
媽媽要我做唔想做嘅嘢 還需要再聯絡嗎？
Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concern. It sounds like you're feeling frustrated and overwhelmed by your mother's demands for you to do things that you don't want to do. It's understandab...
Apr 11, 2023
I love my kids, but they make me lose my temper so easily nowadays., especially when they ignore and make me repeat my instructions many times. What s...
Dear User, it is understandable that you are feeling frustrated and overwhelmed when your children do not listen to your instructions. Parenting can be challenging, and it is normal to feel upset when...
Apr 11, 2023
I don’t like my mother in law
Dear User, I understand that you're feeling uncomfortable with your mother-in-law. This can be a challenging situation to navigate, especially if you're not used to being around her or if you don't ha...
Apr 11, 2023
我到四十一岁了还没生孩子，所以很妒忌大嫂生了一个还怀了一个，心里妒忌到诅咒，虽然现在已经不会这样了，但还是很羡慕，怎么办
Dear User, I can sense the pain and envy that you are feeling right now. It must be difficult for you to see your sister-in-law experience the joy of motherhood while you are still waiting for your t...
Apr 11, 2023
what happens if your mother in law has a lot of negativity? Worry that this could impact my kids and wife
Dear User, I can understand your concern about your mother-in-law's negativity and how it may affect your children and wife. It can be challenging to deal with people who have a negative outlook on li...
Apr 11, 2023
My son always have mood swings how come
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it can be to see your son go through mood swings. It can be challenging to know what to do or say to help him. From a Buddhist perspective, we know that all ...
Apr 11, 2023
my brother said he is addicted to pornography and now he is depressed and could not continue his study and life, what should he do, how can we help hi...
Dear User, I understand how difficult it must be for you and your family to see your brother struggling with addiction and depression. It takes a lot of courage for your brother to admit his addiction...
Apr 10, 2023