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my grandpa just passed away and I’m really sad

Dear friend, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa. Losing someone we love can be incredibly painful and overwhelming. It is natural to feel sad, confused, and even angry during this time....

Apr 5, 2023

讨厌家婆带娃的方式怎么办

Dear User, I understand that you are feeling frustrated with the way your mother-in-law is taking care of your child. It can be challenging to navigate these types of situations, especially when it c...

Apr 5, 2023

I feel super nervous about my daughter going to the elementary school

Dear User, Thank you for sharing your concern about your daughter starting elementary school. It is completely understandable to feel nervous and anxious about such a big change in your child's life....

Apr 5, 2023

I find it very difficult to balance my work and my family (especially my daughter). My daughter is about to enter elementary school, and I feel afraid...

Dear User, I understand how you feel. Balancing work and family can be a challenge, and it's normal to feel afraid and uncertain about whether you're doing the right thing for your child. It's clear ...

Apr 5, 2023

我的宝宝在预产期还有两天的时候胎停,我很难从失去宝宝的痛苦中走出来

I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a child is one of the most painful experiences that a person can go through, and it's completely understandable that you are struggling to come to terms with it. It...

Apr 4, 2023

如何面對一個情緒管理不佳且喜歡情緒勒索的家人

Dear User, I understand that dealing with a family member who has poor emotional management skills and engages in emotional blackmail can be challenging and stressful. It's easy to feel helpless and ...

Apr 4, 2023

I have a lovely family but I am not happy, why?

I understand how you feel. It can be confusing and disheartening to have a wonderful family and not feel happy. It's important to recognize that happiness is not always dependent on external factors l...

Apr 4, 2023

My mom cannot accept I moved out from home, how should I do?

Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging when a parent cannot accept your decision to move out from home. It is natural to want your parent's approval and support, but sometimes their views ...

Apr 3, 2023

怎样才能全家人和好

Dear User, It sounds like you are experiencing some conflict within your family, and you are seeking guidance on how to improve the situation. I want to start by acknowledging that family relationshi...

Apr 3, 2023

hi, if I do not compromise with my mom for any trivial thing, she will talk to me all day no matter what I am doing, and say something mean and untrue...

Dear User, I understand how difficult and frustrating it can be when we have conflicts with our loved ones, especially with our parents. It can be emotionally draining and can affect our overall wel...

Apr 3, 2023

my toddler needs carrying around all day

Dear User, I can understand that carrying your toddler around all day can be exhausting and challenging. As a parent, it's natural to want to provide your child with the comfort and support they nee...

Apr 3, 2023

我是一位五十三歲在讀的博士生,正在進行自己的研究和撰寫研究論文。我也在經營著我自己的商業諮詢公司,不過雖然公司是2004年成立,曾經很輝煌,在上海,香港,新加坡,法國,德國都有過辦公室。但是,因為2020年疫情的關係,公司已經沒有員工了,也沒有辦公室了,只是剩下自己一個人在操作,但是還是有項目在進行...

Dear User, I can hear how overwhelmed and frustrated you are at the moment. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate with your doctoral studies, running your own business, and teaching as a part-t...

Apr 3, 2023

How come my father don’t speak to me?

Dear User, I can imagine that it must be very painful for you to experience the silence of your father. It's natural to feel hurt, confused, and frustrated when a parent doesn't speak to us. It's imp...

Apr 2, 2023

I love my little children so much that I gen anxious about the world they are going to live in in the future

Dear User, I can imagine how much you must love your little children and how deep your concern for their future must be. It is natural to feel anxious about the world our children will inherit, espec...

Apr 2, 2023

我太太把小孩藏起來怎麼辦

Dear User, I can hear that you are feeling worried and unsure about what to do as your wife has hidden your child. This must be a very distressing situation for you, and it is important that you take...

Apr 2, 2023

Should i forgive my abusive parents who are still verbally abusing me

Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are dealing with verbal abuse from your parents. This is an incredibly difficult situation to be in, and it is understandable that you may be feeling overwhelmed...

Apr 2, 2023

我的5岁孩子太过好动了,我应该怎么办?

I understand your concern about your 5-year-old child being too active. It can be challenging to manage a child who seems to have boundless energy. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to remem...

Apr 2, 2023

I'm living in a home full of negativity

Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are living in a home full of negativity. It can be challenging to deal with constant negativity, and it's understandable that it's impacting your emotional and...

Apr 2, 2023

My brother always scolds me it makes me very sad in life

Dear friend, it sounds like you are feeling quite upset and hurt by your brother's behavior towards you. It's understandable that being consistently scolded by someone close to you can take a toll on ...

Apr 2, 2023

My brother hates our father, what can I do?

Dear User, I am sorry to hear that your brother has such strong negative feelings towards your father. It can be challenging to navigate family dynamics, especially when there is unresolved conflict o...

Apr 2, 2023