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I cannot control my temper and hate myself for not being able to

Dear User, I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with controlling your temper and feeling down on yourself as a result. It's important to recognize that you're not alone in this experience - many ...

Mar 28, 2023

Letting go of past abusive relationships

Dear friend, I'm sorry to hear that you have experienced abuse in your past relationships. It takes a lot of courage to recognize that you have been in an abusive relationship and to seek help in hea...

Mar 28, 2023

My wife criticizes me when she is menstruating, but she can't help it.

Dear User, I understand that it can be difficult to handle criticism, especially when it comes from someone close to you like your wife. It can feel like a personal attack, and it's natural to feel hu...

Mar 28, 2023

I have low self-esteem that leads me to criticize others.

Dear User, I hear you. It can be challenging to struggle with low self-esteem, and it can lead to feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. When we don't feel good about ourselves, it can be tempting to...

Mar 28, 2023

How to deal with people who always take advantage of you and refuse to admit it when you tell them to stop doing so?

Dear User, It sounds like you are dealing with a challenging situation with people who take advantage of you and refuse to acknowledge their behavior. It can be very frustrating to feel like your bou...

Mar 28, 2023

Teenagers care a lot about their social life. How to find a balance

Dear User, I understand that as a teenager, your social life is of utmost importance to you. It is natural to want to spend time with your friends and feel like you belong. However, it can be challen...

Mar 28, 2023

I’m not good at socializinh

Dear User, I can understand how challenging it may be to feel like you're not good at socializing. It's natural to feel nervous or anxious in social situations, especially if you're not used to being ...

Mar 28, 2023

How do i find true friendships ?

Dear User, I understand the importance of having true friendships in life. It can be difficult to find those who truly understand us, share similar values, and support us through thick and thin. It c...

Mar 28, 2023

I cannot face separation

Dear friend, I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with the fear of separation. It's a tough emotion to grapple with, and it can be especially challenging when it feels like it's consuming you. Fro...

Mar 27, 2023

How can we forgive if people hurt us ?

Dear friend, I understand how difficult it is to forgive those who have hurt us. It can feel like an insurmountable task, and the pain we carry can linger for a long time. From a Buddhist perspective,...

Mar 27, 2023

why do people hate me?

Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling hated by people. It can be a tough experience to go through, and it is natural to feel hurt and confused about why this might be happening. Please kn...

Mar 27, 2023

Why is my friend, shi jing, so annoying

Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing frustration with your friend Shi Jing. It can be challenging to deal with someone who annoys us, and it is normal to feel uncomfortable in such ...

Mar 27, 2023

when you help others but they dont do the same when you are in need of help

Dear User, I understand how frustrating it can feel when you've been there for others in their time of need, but they don't reciprocate when you need them the most. It can be disheartening and leave ...

Mar 26, 2023

How to face the people who are having bad attitude

Dear User, It can be very challenging to face people who have a bad attitude. It can be frustrating, hurtful, and even triggering. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to remember that everyo...

Mar 26, 2023

How to stop worrying about others when they don’t care

Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to stop worrying about others when it seems like they don't care about you or your feelings. It can be frustrating and even hurtful to constantly give ...

Mar 25, 2023

How to detach from someone

Dear User, Thank you for reaching out for advice on how to detach from someone. It can be challenging to let go of someone we care about deeply, and it takes courage to seek support in doing so. From...

Mar 25, 2023

Should I block the person that once liked me but not anymore

Dear User, I understand that this situation may be causing you distress and confusion. It can be difficult to navigate the changing dynamics of a relationship, especially when it involves unrequited f...

Mar 25, 2023

i can not forget someone

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it is to not be able to forget someone. It can be a painful experience, and it is completely normal to feel this way. Sometimes, we get attached to individua...

Mar 25, 2023

I feel comfortable with myself, but not with others, is it ok?

Dear User, thank you for sharing your feelings with me. It is completely normal to feel comfortable with yourself, but not with others. We all have different levels of comfort in social situations, an...

Mar 25, 2023

What am I to do if all my friends are out of reach and I will probably never see most of them again?

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to feel like you have lost your friends and that they are out of reach. It can be tough to accept that people come and go in our lives, and...

Mar 25, 2023