Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
when is advisable to contact a partner again when we just broke up
Dear User, it sounds like you are going through a difficult time right now. Going through a breakup is never easy, and it's natural to feel confused and uncertain about what to do next. It's important...
Mar 24, 2023
How to socialize better
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out for advice on how to socialize better. It can be challenging to put yourself out there and connect with others, especially if you feel shy or anxious in social s...
Mar 24, 2023
How could I avoid people whom I cannot get along?
Dear friend, I can understand how challenging it can be to deal with people whom we cannot get along with. It can be a very frustrating and stressful experience, and it can take a toll on our emotiona...
Mar 24, 2023
When I can have a boyfriend?
Dear User, I want you to know that I hear your question, and I understand that you are feeling eager to have a boyfriend. It's natural to want to share your life with someone special, and it's okay to...
Mar 24, 2023
How to find peace from a messy relationship?
Dear User, I hear that you are struggling to find peace in a messy relationship. It can be so difficult when we feel stuck in a situation that is causing us pain and discomfort. It is natural to want ...
Mar 24, 2023
I always lose patience easily, what can I do to improve
Dear friend, thank you for reaching out and sharing your struggle with losing patience easily. It is important to acknowledge that it can be challenging to navigate life's obstacles when we feel like ...
Mar 24, 2023
When can i be in relationship?
Dear User, I understand that you are asking a question about relationships, and I want you to know that it is a perfectly valid question to ask. Relationships are an important part of life, and it is ...
Mar 24, 2023
How do i find true friends
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concern about finding true friends. It is understandable to feel lonely or disconnected when we do not have a supportive social network around u...
Mar 24, 2023
How do i find real friends
Dear friend, I can sense that you are feeling lonely and struggling to find genuine connections with others. It can be difficult to navigate the world of friendships, especially when we are seeking de...
Mar 24, 2023
I lost my baby and my friends said means things to me. I feel very betrayed
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a baby is an incredibly painful and difficult experience, and it is understandable that you are feeling hurt and betrayed by your friends' actions. It is important ...
Mar 24, 2023
How to I control my hatred to people that’s against me?
Dear User, I understand that feeling hatred towards people who are against you can be a difficult and painful experience. It's natural to want to defend yourself when you feel attacked or criticized,...
Mar 24, 2023
How to escape from the one you hate?
Dear User, I understand that being in a situation where you hate someone can be extremely difficult and emotionally draining. You may be feeling frustrated, angry, and even resentful towards this per...
Mar 24, 2023
How to forgive my abusive ex boyfriend
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you have gone through a difficult and painful experience with your ex-boyfriend. It takes a lot of courage to even consider forgiving someone who has caused us so m...
Mar 23, 2023
I was physically and mentally abused for three years by a man I loved. I don’t know how to move on.
Dear friend, I am so sorry to hear about your experience of being physically and mentally abused by someone you loved. That must have been incredibly painful and traumatic for you. It's understandable...
Mar 23, 2023
Should my friend start dating
Dear friend, I understand that you are seeking advice on behalf of your friend who is considering starting to date. This can be a difficult decision, and it is admirable that you are supporting your f...
Mar 23, 2023
How to tell another person that his words upset me
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out with your question. It sounds like you're struggling with how to communicate your feelings to someone in a way that is both assertive and compassionate. It's nat...
Mar 23, 2023
one of my best friends suddenly put up a fight on me and I think both of us are wrong. Instead of apologise what should I do?
Dear friend, I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time with your best friend. It's never easy when someone we care about suddenly puts up a fight, and it can be even more challenging w...
Mar 23, 2023
I feel angry after being criticised by a colleague as being sensitive. What should I do ?
Dear User, I understand how you must be feeling after being criticized by your colleague as being sensitive. It can be very difficult to hear such comments, especially when they are directed towards u...
Mar 23, 2023
my best friend always hurts my feelings
Dear friend, I'm sorry to hear that your best friend has been hurting your feelings. It's understandable that this is causing you pain and discomfort. From a Buddhist perspective, we understand that a...
Mar 23, 2023
I have very few friends and feel lonely
Dear friend, I understand how difficult it can be to feel lonely and isolated. It's natural to crave connection and companionship with others, and when we don't have that, it can be very hard on our m...
Mar 23, 2023