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I don't how to communicate with a self-centred person

Dear friend, I can sense that you are struggling with how to communicate with a self-centered person. It can be challenging to interact with someone who seems to only focus on themselves and their nee...

Mar 21, 2023

should I change my boyfriend?

Dear User, I understand that you are feeling unsure about your current relationship and whether or not you should make a change. Relationships can be complicated and it can be difficult to know what t...

Mar 21, 2023

How to avoid coworkers that too eager to talk to you

Dear User, I understand that sometimes, it can be challenging to deal with coworkers who are overly eager to talk to you. It can be exhausting, and you may feel like you don't have enough time to fin...

Mar 21, 2023

How to forgive someone that own my money

Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to forgive someone who owes you money. It is natural to feel angry, frustrated, and betrayed when someone does not pay back the money they owe you. You...

Mar 21, 2023

I feel awkward when meeting new people.

Dear User, it sounds like you are experiencing some discomfort when meeting new people, and that's okay. It's natural to feel nervous or anxious in new social situations. You are not alone in this fee...

Mar 21, 2023

a colleague never wish to pay for coffee money, what should I do to stop treat him the coffee

Dear User, Thank you for reaching out to me for guidance. It can be frustrating and disappointing when a colleague never wants to pay for coffee money, especially when it feels like you are being tak...

Mar 21, 2023

my grandfather is cheating on mu grandmother, he is now dating my girlfriend. at the same time my girlfriend is also dating my father.

Dear User, I can only imagine how difficult and confusing this situation must be for you. It's completely understandable to feel hurt, betrayed, and lost. Your grandfather's actions are not only hurt...

Mar 21, 2023

I’m not confident of myself and not empathetic being too self-centered either. Well I might be generous and caring and friendly, but I have problem c...

Dear User, Thank you for sharing your concerns about your confidence, empathy, and ability to connect with others. It takes courage to acknowledge these struggles, and I want to offer you my support ...

Mar 21, 2023

Why is my superior controlling

Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to work under a controlling superior. It can make you feel like you are not trusted and that your ideas and abilities are not valued. From a Buddhist pe...

Mar 21, 2023

I’m feeling worried and insecure, because I have a feeling that the people surrounding me is facing a great danger

Dear friend, I can understand how you may be feeling at this moment. It can be overwhelming to have a sense that those around you are in danger, and this feeling can cause a lot of worry and insecurit...

Mar 21, 2023

How do we let go of a relationship

Dear User, it's understandable that you are looking for ways to let go of a relationship. It can be a challenging and painful process, but it's essential for your growth and well-being. From a Buddhis...

Mar 21, 2023

Am I stupid to forgive a lying partner?

Dear User, it can be incredibly difficult to navigate a situation where trust has been broken in a relationship. It's understandable to feel conflicted about whether or not to forgive a partner who ha...

Mar 21, 2023

Should I forgive someone who lies to me?

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it is for you to be in a situation where someone has lied to you. It can be a very distressing and hurtful experience, and it's normal to feel angry, betraye...

Mar 21, 2023

How could I feel peaceful when I talk to my bossy manager?

Dear User, I understand how challenging it can be to communicate with a bossy manager. It can often leave you feeling frustrated, anxious, and powerless. It's important to remember that their behavior...

Mar 21, 2023

How to turn my rivals into my friends?

Dear User, I understand that you are struggling with turning your rivals into friends. It can be difficult and challenging to go from a competitive and potentially hostile relationship to one of frie...

Mar 21, 2023

How to turn competition into cooperation?

Dear User, I understand that you may be struggling with turning competition into cooperation. It can be difficult to move away from a mindset of competition, especially when we have been conditioned ...

Mar 21, 2023

How to talk to someone who dislike me

First of all, I want to acknowledge how difficult it can be to talk to someone who dislikes you. It can be hurtful and frustrating to feel disliked or rejected by someone, and it's natural to feel anx...

Mar 21, 2023

How can I deal with cyber bullying?

Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing cyberbullying. It can be a painful and upsetting experience to be targeted by others online. It is important to remember that cyberbullying is n...

Mar 21, 2023

How to fix the breaking relationship

Dear User, I understand that having a breaking relationship can be a difficult and painful experience. It is natural to feel overwhelmed with emotions such as sadness, frustration, and confusion. From...

Mar 21, 2023

my cats wont get along, and I'm sad about it

Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be when our pets don't get along. It's natural to feel sad and frustrated when the animals we love don't seem to love each other. It can be especially har...

Mar 21, 2023