Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
Siyu can't stop comparing herself to Tianfang!
Dear Siyu, I understand how difficult it can be to constantly compare yourself to others, especially when it feels like they are doing better than you in certain areas of life. It's natural to want t...
Mar 21, 2023
miss someone
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are missing someone. It can be difficult to be separated from a loved one, whether it is due to distance, a break-up, or loss. It is understandable that you may...
Mar 20, 2023
I feel uncomfortable to socialise in a large group of people
Dear User, I understand how you feel uncomfortable socializing in large groups of people. It can be overwhelming to be surrounded by so many people and to feel like you don't belong or don't know what...
Mar 20, 2023
I am surrounded by guys that are ugly
I hear you, and I'm sorry that you're feeling surrounded by guys who you don't find attractive. It can be difficult to be around people who don't meet our standards of physical attractiveness, especia...
Mar 20, 2023
I’m not good with socializing
Dear friend, thank you for reaching out. It takes courage to acknowledge that you're struggling with socializing. Everyone has different social needs, and it's okay if you feel like you're not as good...
Mar 20, 2023
I dont get along well with my boyfriend’s parents
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to find yourself not getting along with a significant other's parents. It can be frustrating and disheartening, especially if you care about your boyfri...
Mar 20, 2023
Should I obey whatever my mom says
Hello there! I can understand that you may be feeling conflicted about whether you should obey whatever your mom says or not. It can be tough to navigate the boundaries between respecting our parents ...
Mar 20, 2023
How to handle pressure from parents
Dear User, I hear you that you are feeling overwhelmed and stressed from the pressure that you are receiving from your parents. It can be difficult to handle the expectations that others have of us, ...
Mar 20, 2023
What to do if I don’t feel well to socialize?
Mar 20, 2023
What to do if I don’t want to socialise?
Dear friend, I hear you. It's okay to not want to socialize sometimes, especially in today's world where we are constantly bombarded by social media and the pressure to always be connected. It's norma...
Mar 20, 2023
I am in trouble of relationships
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling in your relationships. It can be incredibly hard to navigate the ups and downs of our connections with others. Know that you are not alone in yo...
Mar 20, 2023
I’m feeling lonely and I’m afraid of being abandoned
I understand how difficult it can be to feel lonely and afraid of being abandoned. These emotions can be overwhelming and can make us feel as though we are not worthy of love and connection. It's impo...
Mar 20, 2023
I wanna hear sorry from my mom
Dear User, I can understand how you must be feeling right now. It's difficult to feel like we need an apology from someone we care about, especially from our own mother. It's natural to want to be ac...
Mar 20, 2023
I don’t like a friend, how can I avoid her?
Dear friend, I can understand that being around someone you don't like can be challenging and uncomfortable. It's natural to have different preferences and not connect with everyone we meet. However, ...
Mar 20, 2023
I feel sad of being excluded from party
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad about being excluded from a party. It is understandable to feel this way, as being excluded can make us feel like we are not wanted or liked. H...
Mar 20, 2023
How to stop comparing to the other
Dear friend, I understand that comparing yourself to others can be a difficult and painful habit to break. It's easy to get caught up in comparing your life to others, especially in this age of social...
Mar 20, 2023
How to deal with irresponsible idiots?
Dear User, I can sense that you are feeling frustrated and upset about dealing with irresponsible individuals. It can be challenging to handle situations where we encounter people who act irresponsibl...
Mar 20, 2023
How to express dissatisfaction with a teenager son
Dear User, I understand that expressing dissatisfaction with your teenage son can be a challenging and delicate situation. As a parent, you want your child to grow into a responsible and mature adult,...
Mar 20, 2023
I’m feeling tired with interacting with my colleagues
Dear friend, I understand how you feel. It can be exhausting to interact with colleagues, especially if you are an introverted person. It takes a lot of energy and effort to communicate, collaborate, ...
Mar 20, 2023
When will I get a girlfriend
Dear User, I understand that you might feel lonely or frustrated about not having a girlfriend yet. It is natural to desire companionship and love, and it can be challenging to wait for it to happen. ...
Mar 20, 2023