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My girlfriend is complaining her parents didn’t give her a materially good childhood where she could study art and resulted in her unfortunate life ri...
Dear User, thank you for sharing your concern about your girlfriend's complaints regarding her childhood. It is understandable that she may feel frustrated and disappointed about not being able to pur...
Jun 7, 2023
what I would do as a husband when my wife is annoying.
Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It can be challenging and frustrating when we find ourselves in situations where our partner's behavior is annoying or bothersome. It's natural to feel a range o...
Jun 7, 2023
How to stop myself from texting the man who doesn’t love me anymore
Dear User, I understand that it can be incredibly difficult to stop yourself from texting someone who no longer loves you. It can feel like you're constantly being pulled back to that person, even wh...
Jun 6, 2023
I developed feelings for my thesis supervisor and this had intervened my progress because I can't stop thinking about him
Dear User, I understand that you are experiencing a challenging situation with your thesis supervisor. It can be difficult to focus on your work when you have strong feelings for someone, especially ...
Jun 5, 2023
Why do I always focus on things that my date doesn't do for me and feel unhappy about it, while I think I have really good time with him?
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your thoughts with me. It sounds like you are struggling with a common issue that many people face in relationships - focusing on the negative aspect...
Jun 5, 2023
When will I find my husband?
Dear User, I understand that finding a life partner can be a challenging and sometimes frustrating experience. It's natural to desire companionship and love, and it can be difficult when it seems like...
Jun 5, 2023
It is very difficult to accept someone I love does not love or care about me as I thought
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with accepting that someone you love does not love or care about you in the way you thought they did. This can be a painful experience and it is ...
Jun 5, 2023
I want to find a boyfriend
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out with your question. It is perfectly natural to desire companionship and love in our lives. From a Buddhist perspective, we understand that all beings seek happin...
Jun 4, 2023
Can I marry to my idol
Dear friend, thank you for reaching out and sharing your question with me. It sounds like you are considering marrying someone who you admire and look up to as an idol. This can be a complex and sensi...
Jun 3, 2023
I fell in love with a person but we will never be together. How can we be friends…
Dear User, It sounds like you are going through a difficult time right now. Falling in love with someone who you cannot be with can be a painful experience. It is understandable that you may feel a r...
Jun 2, 2023
my friend cannot get laid, what should he do
Dear friend, I can understand how difficult it can be to see someone we care about struggling in their romantic pursuits. It's natural to want to help and offer advice, but it's important to approach ...
Jun 2, 2023
Hi Buddha. I am married with three kids. Our marriage is not perfect, we haven't had sex in 4 years. Now may have fallen in love with another person, ...
Dear friend, I can sense that you are in a difficult and confusing situation. It is understandable that you are feeling conflicted and torn between your responsibilities towards your family and your s...
Jun 2, 2023
I like a boy but he is in another country. I will go there after 2 months. He said he likes me too but he cant wait for me in relationship so he got ...
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing pain and difficulty focusing on your work due to your current situation. It can be challenging to have feelings for someone who is far away, a...
Jun 2, 2023
I like a boy but he is in another country. I will go there after two months. He said he also likes me and misses me but he cant wait for me in a relat...
Dear User, I can understand that this situation must be very difficult for you. It's never easy to have feelings for someone who is far away, and it's especially hard when you find out that they're s...
Jun 2, 2023
How to develop a Long distance love relationship?
Dear User, I understand that developing a long-distance love relationship can be challenging and take a lot of effort. It can be tough to find ways to stay connected and maintain the emotional intimac...
Jun 2, 2023
I met this guy during travelling. We dated on the last few days. And we are now back in our own countries. Should i try a long distance relationship?
Dear User, it sounds like you are facing a tough decision about whether to pursue a long distance relationship with someone you met while traveling. I can understand how challenging this must be for y...
Jun 1, 2023
my girlfriend complaining that I am poor
Dear friend, I can sense that you are feeling upset and hurt by your girlfriend's words. It is understandable that you would feel this way, as being criticized or belittled can be deeply painful. It i...
Jun 1, 2023
why he acts cold after opening up to me
Dear friend, I can understand how challenging it can be when someone opens up to you and then suddenly becomes cold. It can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and unsure of what to do next. From a Budd...
May 31, 2023
I find myself drawn to many women simultaneously. It can be very fun and satisfying. Other times I worry about the amount of energy I spend in this ar...
Dear User, I understand that you are experiencing conflicting emotions when it comes to your relationships with women. On one hand, you find it enjoyable and fulfilling to connect with multiple women...
May 30, 2023
i cheated on someone. how can i fix it?
Dear User, I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to come to terms with the fact that you have cheated on someone. It takes a lot of courage to admit it, and your willingness to seek help...
May 29, 2023