Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
I reject and stay away from friends
Dear User, I understand that you are currently rejecting and staying away from your friends. This can be a very isolating and lonely experience, especially when we consider how important social conne...
Jun 22, 2023
How to deal with high conflict person
Dear User, I understand that dealing with a high conflict person can be extremely challenging and stressful. It is important to remember that everyone has their own unique experiences and perspective...
Jun 22, 2023
I feel unhappy, because i am that close to my parents
Dear friend, I can understand how you are feeling right now. It can be very difficult to feel unhappy when you are so close to your parents. You may feel like you are supposed to be happy because you ...
Jun 21, 2023
Anxiety of being corrected
Dear User, I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing anxiety around being corrected. It can be difficult to feel like we're being judged or criticized, especially when we're doing our best. It's nor...
Jun 20, 2023
Should we have attachment to family
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with this question. It is natural to feel attached to our family members as they are often our closest and most significant relationships. It can be difficult to ...
Jun 20, 2023
How to get along well with colleagues?
Dear User, it can be challenging to get along well with colleagues, but you are not alone in this struggle. It's essential to remember that we all have different personalities, backgrounds, and commun...
Jun 19, 2023
Why do good people get hurt by others?
Dear User, I understand the pain and confusion you may be feeling from being hurt by someone you thought was a good person. It can be difficult to reconcile the idea that good people can do bad thing...
Jun 19, 2023
Find it very hard to let go of hurt and resentment
Dear User, I can see that you are struggling with letting go of hurt and resentment. It's understandable to hold onto negative emotions when we feel wronged or hurt by others. It takes a lot of coura...
Jun 19, 2023
why do I feel inferior to others sometimes?
Dear User, thank you for sharing your question. It is common for many people to experience feelings of inferiority from time to time. It is natural to compare ourselves to others, but at times, this c...
Jun 19, 2023
I feel angry when being corrected
Dear User, I can understand how frustrating it can be to feel angry when corrected. It can be difficult to receive feedback or criticism, especially when it feels like a personal attack. From a Buddhi...
Jun 19, 2023
I feel alone, what can I do?
Dear User, it sounds like you're feeling isolated and disconnected from others. That can be a very difficult and painful experience. It's important to acknowledge your feelings and recognize that it's...
Jun 18, 2023
I’m tired to be alone
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to feel alone and isolated. It’s important to know that you are not alone in feeling this way, and that many people experience similar feelings of lonel...
Jun 16, 2023
I feel perfectly comfortable with disassociating myself fron others, but someones have affection on me, which pressurises me. How do I deal with it?
Dear friend, I understand that you feel comfortable disassociating yourself from others, but lately, you have noticed that some people have developed feelings of affection for you, and this makes you ...
Jun 16, 2023
How to cope with my negative feelings against selfish people
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with negative feelings towards selfish people. It can be challenging to deal with individuals who only seem to think of themselves, especially whe...
Jun 15, 2023
Why did my disabled ex boyfriend call me fat?
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that your ex-boyfriend called you fat. It is understandable that you may feel hurt, confused, and even angry about his comment. I want to offer you both Buddhist and psyc...
Jun 14, 2023
I'm not good in socializing.
Dear User, I want to start by expressing my empathy towards you. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge that one is struggling with socializing. This can be a challenging experience, and it's okay t...
Jun 14, 2023
I feel obligated to spend time with my mom
Dear User, I hear that you are feeling obligated to spend time with your mom and it seems like it's causing you some discomfort. It's understandable that you may feel this way, especially if your mom ...
Jun 13, 2023
My friend hurt me a lot by befriending my ex who tried to kill me
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear about the pain and hurt you are going through. It is never easy to experience betrayal and hurt from someone who was once close to us. You trusted your friend, and it m...
Jun 13, 2023
Why i feel upset after being scolded by boss that i was playing my phone during a team meeting
Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It can be tough to receive criticism, especially in front of others. It's understandable that you would feel upset after being scolded by your boss for playing o...
Jun 13, 2023
my friend got angry with me but i dont think it is my problem
Dear friend, I understand that it can be difficult when someone is angry with us, even if we don't feel like it's our fault. It can be frustrating to feel misunderstood or unfairly blamed. From a Budd...
Jun 12, 2023