Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
someone I had really meaningful communication with on several occasions have ghosted me
I'm sorry to hear that someone you had meaningful communication with has ghosted you. It can be very confusing and hurtful to suddenly lose contact with someone you thought you had a connection with. ...
Jun 11, 2023
Feeling unloved
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling unloved. It is a difficult emotion to experience, and it can be hard to know what to do when you feel this way. First and foremost, please know that...
Jun 10, 2023
I am not good at socialising
Dear friend, I understand that socializing can be a challenging and overwhelming experience. It takes a lot of courage to admit that you struggle with socializing. It is natural to feel anxious or ner...
Jun 10, 2023
Greetings and respects, I meet a lot of difficult people in my life. I treat them with kindness, forgiveness and compassion. However there seems to be...
Dear friend, I understand that it can be frustrating when you put in the effort to treat difficult people with kindness, forgiveness, and compassion, yet they seem to remain unchanged. It takes a lot ...
Jun 10, 2023
should spouse know each other's phone passwords?
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out with your question. It's understandable to wonder whether or not it's appropriate for spouses to know each other's phone passwords. It's clear that you want to r...
Jun 9, 2023
Why do some people take their frustration out on me but not on others?
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it can be when some people take their frustration out on you while not doing so with others. It can lead to feelings of inadequacy and questioning your worth....
Jun 8, 2023
Why did he leave me?
I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. It is understandable that you may be feeling hurt, confused, and disappointed about your partner's decision to leave you. This experienc...
Jun 8, 2023
I'm not good at socializing
I understand that socializing can be challenging for many people, and it's okay to feel that way. It's important to recognize that social skills are just that - skills - and like any other skill, they...
Jun 8, 2023
There is someone hurt me and said something really bad to me. But we’ve been friends for 19 years. After the big fight, I cannot forget about her. Kee...
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time with a friend you have known for 19 years. It is understandable that you are feeling hurt and struggling to let go of the r...
Jun 7, 2023
How to make my oldman happy?
Dear User, It is understandable that you want to make your old man happy. You love him and want to show him your appreciation for all the love and care he has given you throughout your life. It can b...
Jun 7, 2023
How to make my oldman happy?
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out with your question. It is clear that you care deeply for your old man and want to make him happy. It is not always easy to know exactly what someone else needs ...
Jun 7, 2023
Why do I find forgiving so hard?
Dear User, it takes a lot of courage to ask such a question, and I want you to know that you are not alone. Forgiveness is a complex and challenging process that requires us to let go of anger, resent...
Jun 7, 2023
When I get bullied, why do others stand with the bully and tell me I'm the emotional one?
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you have been bullied and that others have joined in on the bullying. It is important to remember that it is not your fault and that you do not deserve to be treate...
Jun 7, 2023
Is it okay for me to want my partner to set boundaries with her ex husband
Dear User, I understand that it can be difficult to navigate complex relationships, especially when it involves an ex-partner. It's natural to want to protect your relationship and ensure that you and...
Jun 6, 2023
I am a thesis supervisor and I start to develop feelings for my student. what should I do?
Dear User, I can understand that you are in a confusing and difficult situation. As a thesis supervisor, you have a professional relationship with your student, and it can be challenging to navigate w...
Jun 5, 2023
I'm not good at socializing
Dear friend, thank you for sharing your concern. It's okay to struggle with socializing, and you're not alone. Many people experience social anxiety or find it challenging to connect with others. It's...
Jun 5, 2023
I am too shy
Dear friend, I can understand how difficult it can be to feel shy and hesitant in social situations. It's common to feel like you're on the outside looking in, and it's tough to step out of your comfo...
Jun 5, 2023
should i let go a nacarisst
Dear User, I understand that you are struggling with a difficult decision regarding a narcissistic person. It can be challenging to let go of someone we care about, even when we know they are not go...
Jun 5, 2023
I have no motivation to interact with others
Dear friend, I understand that feeling unmotivated to interact with others can be a challenging experience. It's okay to feel this way, and you're not alone. There are many possible reasons why you mi...
Jun 3, 2023
Not good at socializing
Dear User, thank you for reaching out for advice. I want you to know that it takes courage to acknowledge an area where you struggle, and I am here to support you. Feeling like you are not good at soc...
Jun 3, 2023