Relationships
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
why does my sibling no longer like me
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it can be when someone close to you, especially a sibling, no longer likes you. This can be a hurtful and confusing experience, and it's natural to feel upse...
Apr 13, 2023
How to deal with some awkward situations when you think it’s terribly awkward and feel so embarrassing
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to deal with awkward situations, especially when it feels embarrassing. It's natural to feel embarrassed in situations that are out of our control or t...
Apr 13, 2023
I am always suspicious of my spouse
Dear friend, I hear that you are struggling with feelings of suspicion towards your spouse. It can be challenging to navigate these emotions, and I want you to know that you are not alone in this. The...
Apr 13, 2023
can i love him
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It sounds like you are struggling with whether or not you are able to love someone. This can be a challenging and complex issue, and it's unde...
Apr 13, 2023
A Budda follower love a Christian, is there any conflict
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It takes courage to seek guidance on matters of the heart, and I am here to support you in any way I can. It is understandable that you may be...
Apr 12, 2023
A Budda follower love a Christian, is there any conflict
Dear friend, I understand that you may be feeling conflicted and unsure about your situation. It can be challenging when we have feelings for someone who may come from a different faith or belief syst...
Apr 12, 2023
Why I am one year sad after my girlfriend left me
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling sad for a year since your girlfriend left you. It's understandable to feel this way after a breakup, especially if it was unexpected or if you were ...
Apr 12, 2023
How do I social with people in life
Dear User, thank you for reaching out for advice on how to socialize with people in life. It takes courage to ask for help in this area, and I want you to know that you are not alone in feeling this w...
Apr 12, 2023
IM 19,NO WORK. my money all form my mum, i fell sorry, what can i do?
Dear friend, I can understand how you may be feeling at this time. It can be difficult to be 19 and not have a job or source of income, especially when all your money is coming from your mother. You m...
Apr 12, 2023
I feel like I being alone, people around since only take my advantages, I am stress finding job and love, i cant sleep well, my surrounding are negati...
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling alone and stressed out. It is understandable to feel this way when you are experiencing a lack of support and feeling taken advantage of. It can be...
Apr 12, 2023
How to ignore people talking behind my back?
Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to deal with people talking behind your back. It can create feelings of hurt, betrayal, and frustration, especially if the comments are untrue or un...
Apr 12, 2023
I have some urgent things to do, regarding coping with others bad judgements on me. But I just dont want to look at them, how should I do?
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with coping with the bad judgments of others. It is understandable that this can be a challenging situation to deal with, and it is okay to feel...
Apr 12, 2023
how do i lead a small team that has more experience than i do.
Dear User, It can be daunting to lead a team that has more experience than you do, but it is not uncommon in the workplace. First, it is important to acknowledge and accept your feelings of inadequac...
Apr 11, 2023
I think my biggest flaw is that i think a lot of people are dumb, and I’m particularly critical of them when i deem that they don’t use them brain. Bu...
Dear User, thank you for reaching out and sharing your thoughts with me. It takes courage to acknowledge our flaws and seek ways to improve ourselves. I can understand how you feel about people who yo...
Apr 11, 2023
I hate my flatmate for his personality and hygiene. I am irritated every time i see or hear him, which is almost every day. What should i do?
Dear User, I understand that living with someone whose personality and hygiene you dislike can be challenging and overwhelming. It's natural to feel irritated and frustrated in such a situation, espec...
Apr 11, 2023
I have told my friend that I had an affair
Dear friend, I understand that sharing such personal information with a friend can be a difficult and vulnerable experience. It takes a lot of courage to open up about something so personal, and I hon...
Apr 11, 2023
Is boyfriend bear more responsibility than girlfriend
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It sounds like you may be struggling with feelings of inequality and unfairness in your relationship with your boyfriend. It’s important to re...
Apr 11, 2023
Can I keep a secret to my wife?
Dear User, from both a Buddhist and psychological perspective, it is understandable that you may be struggling with the idea of keeping a secret from your wife. It is natural to want to keep certain t...
Apr 11, 2023
Should I hate my friends?
Dear User, I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling with feelings of hatred towards your friends. It's understandable to feel hurt, betrayed, or frustrated by our friends' actions sometimes. Perhaps ...
Apr 11, 2023
Hate a person but thanks him
Dear User, I understand that your situation may feel confusing and overwhelming. It can be challenging to hold two seemingly contradictory feelings towards someone at the same time. On the one hand, y...
Apr 11, 2023