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I am scared of crushing on people. but I tend to do it often and can be quite obsessed about it. I think I am not worthy of the relationship
Dear friend, thank you for sharing your concern. It takes courage to admit our vulnerabilities, and I commend you for taking the first step towards your healing. From a Buddhist perspective, our thoug...
Apr 24, 2023
my crush and I both arrived way earlier than the time we discussed to meet up. when we saw each other we smiled. what does it mean
Dear User, it sounds like you are curious about the meaning behind a smile shared between you and your crush when you both arrived earlier than expected for a planned meetup. It's completely understan...
Apr 24, 2023
I just got out of a bad relationship
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you just got out of a bad relationship. I can only imagine how difficult and painful it must be for you to deal with the aftermath of a breakup. You might be feeli...
Apr 24, 2023
I just got out of a bad relationship
Dear friend, I understand that getting out of a bad relationship can be a very difficult and painful experience. It is completely normal to feel a range of emotions such as sadness, anger, confusion, ...
Apr 24, 2023
i confessed with a girl, she say loves me, now she ignores me
Dear friend, I can sense that you are feeling quite confused and hurt by the recent behavior of the girl you confessed to. It can be incredibly painful to feel like someone you care about is ignoring...
Apr 24, 2023
I am attracted to my sex partner.
Dear User, thank you for reaching out and sharing your experience. It takes courage to be vulnerable and acknowledge our feelings, especially when they may be perceived as taboo or unconventional. Fro...
Apr 23, 2023
I don't know how to say I have a boyfriend to a guy that I'm interested in, when he asks me out
Dear User, I understand that it can be challenging to figure out how to communicate your relationship status to someone you are interested in. It is normal to feel nervous or hesitant about sharing pe...
Apr 23, 2023
I don't know how to say I have a boyfriend to a guy I'm interested
Dear User, it's understandable that expressing your feelings to someone you're interested in can be daunting. It's common to feel nervous and uncertain about how they will react. From a Buddhist persp...
Apr 23, 2023
if i'm in a relationship, can i still go out with another guy i'm interested?
Dear User, It sounds like you are questioning whether you can continue to explore your attraction to another man while in a committed relationship. Please know that it's okay to have these feelings a...
Apr 23, 2023
Girls flirt with me And i love too
Hello, thank you for reaching out. It seems like you are feeling conflicted about the attention you are receiving from girls. It is understandable to feel happy and flattered when someone is intereste...
Apr 23, 2023
why I always crush on people who work with me
Dear User, I understand how frustrating it can be to constantly find yourself developing feelings for people you work with. It can be confusing, especially when you're trying to maintain a professiona...
Apr 22, 2023
My husband refuse to go club with me. How can i convince him to go with me.
Dear User, I understand that you would like to go to a club with your husband, but he refuses to accompany you. It can be disappointing when our partners do not share our interests or are unwilling t...
Apr 22, 2023
How should i deal with my cheating spouse
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are going through such a challenging and painful experience. Discovering that your spouse has been unfaithful can be incredibly difficult, and it is understand...
Apr 22, 2023
How should i deal with my cheating spouse
Dear friend, I understand that discovering your spouse has cheated on you can be an incredibly painful and difficult experience. It is normal to feel a range of emotions such as anger, hurt, betrayal,...
Apr 22, 2023
How I get a wife ?
Dear User, I understand that you are seeking guidance on how to find a wife. It's natural to desire companionship and love, and it's okay to seek advice on how to achieve that. From a Buddhist perspe...
Apr 22, 2023
I’m a cheater how do I live with myself
Dear User, I understand that you are struggling with feelings of guilt and shame due to your actions of cheating. It takes a lot of courage to admit to oneself that they have done something wrong, and...
Apr 21, 2023
Hi Buddha, I felt so helpless when others around thought I'm not suitable for the one I care, and I even agreed with some of their points. And that on...
Dear friend, I can sense the pain and confusion you're experiencing right now. It can be incredibly challenging when others around us doubt our abilities or worthiness, especially when it comes to mat...
Apr 21, 2023
What can I do when the girl I fell in love with is either very sick or using that as an excuse to ignore me?
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to navigate this situation with someone you care about. It's natural to feel worried and concerned when someone you love is unwell, but it can be even m...
Apr 20, 2023
Hi Buddha, my partner seemed to be jealous or unhappy with my conversation with our close friend. What should I say to calm down and ensure my loyalit...
Dear friend, it can be difficult to navigate situations where our partner feels threatened or unhappy with our interactions with others. It's understandable that you want to reassure your partner and ...
Apr 20, 2023
Hi Buddha, if someone were suspecting my partner had made some crime out of admiration for me, what should I do?
Dear friend, I can hear that you are going through a difficult situation right now, and I want you to know that I am here to listen and support you in any way that I can. It can be overwhelming and co...
Apr 20, 2023