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How to stop anxiety caused by aspergers spouse

Dear User, I can understand how challenging it can be to deal with anxiety caused by a spouse with Asperger's. It can be difficult to communicate effectively with someone who has Asperger's, and this...

Mar 11, 2023

I'm tired of socialising

Dear User, I hear you. It can be exhausting to socialize, especially if you are an introverted person, or if you have been going through a lot of stress lately. It's okay to feel this way, and it's im...

Mar 11, 2023

How to make others love me

Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It's understandable to want to be loved and accepted by others. It's a natural human desire to feel a sense of belonging and connection with o...

Mar 11, 2023

My wife is not happy

Dear User, I can sense that you are going through a difficult time as you have shared that your wife is not happy. It can be challenging to see someone you love feeling unhappy, and it is natural to w...

Mar 11, 2023

I hate being alone

Dear User, Thank you for sharing your feelings with me. It takes a lot of courage to express vulnerability and I want to acknowledge your bravery in doing so. Feeling lonely is a common experience an...

Mar 11, 2023

How do I move on if I have been bullied in an intense environment because I was on top of things, relaxed, and having a good time?

Dear friend, I can sense that you are going through a difficult time right now. Being bullied is a painful experience that can leave deep emotional wounds. It is natural to feel hurt, angry, and frust...

Mar 11, 2023

I have a successful career and a loving family. Why I cannot let go someone who bullied me in high school and feel so threatened that she is in the sa...

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to still feel threatened by someone who bullied you in high school, even though you have a successful career and a loving family. It is no...

Mar 11, 2023

How can I accept someone who bullied me when I was a teenager gets the life she wanted?

Dear User, it sounds like you are struggling with feelings of resentment and bitterness towards someone who bullied you in the past, especially because it seems like they are now living the life they ...

Mar 11, 2023

How can I help my ADHD husband with grace?

Dear User, I can understand that it can be challenging to support a spouse with ADHD. It can be frustrating when they struggle to focus, forget things, or get easily distracted. It is important to rem...

Mar 11, 2023

How can I support my hushed with ADHD with grace?

Dear User, I can sense that you are a caring and compassionate person who wants to support your loved one with ADHD. It can be challenging to know how to support someone with ADHD, as it can be a com...

Mar 11, 2023

Why I feel people may have an agenda of using me when they praise me of being smart?

Hello, dear User. I can understand how you might feel when people praise you for being smart, but at the same time, you feel that they may have an agenda of using you. It's natural to feel this way, a...

Mar 11, 2023

Why do I feel powerless of ending relationships, which encompass working relationship, friendship, and love relationship.

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to feel powerless in ending relationships, whether they are working relationships, friendships, or love relationships. It is not uncommon ...

Mar 11, 2023

Why do I feel people have their hidden agenda and are exhausting?

Dear User, I can understand how you feel when you believe that people have their hidden agenda and that it can be exhausting for you. It is natural to feel this way, especially when you have had negat...

Mar 11, 2023

I thought I was important to her

Dear User, I can sense that you are feeling hurt and disappointed because you thought you were important to someone, but now you feel like that might not be the case. It can be difficult to feel like...

Mar 11, 2023

Why my colleague don't follow rules

Dear User, I can understand how frustrating it can be when a colleague doesn't follow the rules. It can make you feel like you're the only one who cares about the job and can lead to resentment toward...

Mar 11, 2023

I met an ex colleague after a year and it reminded me of my feelings for him

Dear User, I can understand how meeting an ex-colleague after a year can bring back memories and feelings that you may have thought were long gone. It's natural to feel this way, and it's okay to ack...

Mar 10, 2023

I'm not good at talking to women colleagues.

Dear User, I understand that it can be difficult to communicate with women colleagues, and it is brave of you to seek advice on how to improve this area of your life. It is natural to feel nervous or...

Mar 10, 2023

Dealing with difficult people

Hello, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you are struggling with how to deal with difficult people in your life. This can be a challenging situation to navigate, and it's understandable that ...

Mar 10, 2023

Why i work so hard bt my wife still look down me

Dear User, I can understand how frustrating and demotivating it can be when you work hard but do not receive the recognition and respect that you deserve. It is natural to feel hurt and disappointed ...

Mar 10, 2023

how to make my wife more listen to me

Hello there! It sounds like you're feeling frustrated and unheard in your relationship with your wife. That can be a tough place to be in, and it's completely understandable that you would want to fee...

Mar 10, 2023