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I still miss my ex wife

Dear User, I can understand how difficult it can be to let go of someone you loved deeply. It is natural to miss your ex-wife after a separation, and it is okay to feel that way. It may take some time...

Mar 19, 2023

How do I deal with people that I don't like

Dear friend, I hear you asking about how to deal with people you don't like, and I want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. It can be challenging and even draining to interact with in...

Mar 19, 2023

Kevin is always giving me cold water, what should i do

Dear Kevin, I can sense that you are feeling uncomfortable and frustrated with the situation where Kevin always gives you cold water. It's completely understandable to feel that way because it can be ...

Mar 19, 2023

I push away people

Dear User, I want to start by acknowledging how difficult it can be to recognize and admit to pushing people away. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge this pattern in yourself. It is important t...

Mar 19, 2023

I was being taken revenge , what should I do

Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing revenge. It can be a difficult and painful situation to face, and it is understandable that you may feel upset and overwhelmed. From a Buddhis...

Mar 19, 2023

how do i not let other peoples frustration and emotions affect me? i am always very affected by people around me and living together with someone emot...

Dear User, I understand how challenging it can be to live with someone who constantly throws tantrums and is emotionally unstable. It is natural to feel affected by the people around us, especially wh...

Mar 19, 2023

How to forgive someone who hurt you by lying

Dear User, I am sorry to hear that someone has caused you pain through their deceitful actions. It is understandable to feel hurt and betrayed when someone lies to you, especially if they are someone...

Mar 19, 2023

I was rude to my mother and tomorrow's Mothers day. what should I do?

Dear friend, I understand how difficult it can be to realize that you have been rude to someone you love, especially when it is your mother. I want you to know that it takes a lot of courage to admit...

Mar 18, 2023

i have a poor relationship with my parents

Dear friend, I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling with a poor relationship with your parents. It can be incredibly difficult when our relationships with those closest to us are strained. From a Bu...

Mar 18, 2023

I was hard to start to chat with people

Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It takes a lot of courage to admit that starting conversations with people can be difficult. Many people struggle with social anxiety and find it challenging to ...

Mar 18, 2023

how to deal with narcissistic parents?

Dear User, I understand that having narcissistic parents can be a challenging and painful experience. It is important to acknowledge that this is not your fault and that you are not alone in this stru...

Mar 17, 2023

How can I deal with difficult people and don’t let them get to me ?

Dear User, I understand that dealing with difficult people can be a challenging and frustrating experience. It can be easy to feel overwhelmed by their negative energy and let it affect us emotionally...

Mar 17, 2023

How can I stop worrying about my kid?

Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It's understandable to worry about your child as a parent - it's a natural instinct to want to protect and care for them. However, excessive worrying can be detr...

Mar 17, 2023

I don’t like to socialise but I feel the pressure to in the corporate world.

Dear friend, I hear you. It can be challenging to navigate the expectations of the corporate world when it comes to socializing. It's okay to feel this way, and you are not alone. Many people feel t...

Mar 17, 2023

How to deal with my reactivity

Dear User, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you are struggling with reactivity, which can be challenging to deal with. Reactivity can manifest in many different ways, such as overreacting to...

Mar 17, 2023

I just help a devil and I am feeling guilty, where should I do?

Dear friend, I can sense that you are currently experiencing a sense of guilt and discomfort after having helped a devil. I want to acknowledge that this can be a difficult and confusing situation to ...

Mar 17, 2023

I really hate someone

I understand that you are feeling a lot of hatred towards someone. It can be difficult to deal with intense emotions, especially when they are negative. From a Buddhist perspective, hatred is one of t...

Mar 17, 2023

how to deal with people suddenly ghosting you

Dear User, I understand how painful it can be when someone suddenly stops responding to your messages or calls. It may leave you feeling confused, hurt, and rejected. It's natural to seek closure and...

Mar 17, 2023

I am afraid of talking myself with people

Dear friend, I understand that you are struggling with fear when it comes to talking to people. This can be a difficult and overwhelming experience, and it's important to acknowledge your feelings and...

Mar 17, 2023

How to make more friends?

Dear User, I understand that making friends can be challenging, and it can feel lonely when you don't have many people to share your joys and sorrows with. It's natural to want to have social connecti...

Mar 17, 2023